ive been looking for my biological father for a few years now an just recently received an email from a cousin i have from his side of the family. my cousin saw an advert i placed to try find my dad an he has now told me my dad would like to get to know me. he has been out of my life for about 24 years due to my mum not wanting me to know him but now he wants to get to know me what do i do?? i had all these things in my head that i wanted to ask but now there is a possibility im goin to meet him i dont no how to react or what to say! i thought it would be a great relief finally finding him but i feel so confused??
2007-08-13 03:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by steffibaby24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you want to meet with him, then do so.
i'm sure he's just as nervous as YOU are...!!
don't worry about what to say, that will come naturally after you are comfortable with him. it may take a few minutes, but i'm sure it will work out naturally.
good luck, and hugs
2007-08-13 03:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the questions for another time. Use the first meeting to just find out who he is now. The questions can come slowly as you get to know him better. Dont be worried because it sounds like he wants to know you and thats good.
2007-08-13 16:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and meet your dad. You need to know more about your self and you can't do that only knowing one side of your family. Hopefully it will be a happy ending...:-) ...I like those...
2007-08-13 10:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋