I need some opinions...about a 3-some?

Question

If you're single, just looking for fun, and use protection, would you do it?
Here is the scenerio, my 2 guy friends asked me if I wanted to do it. I don't want relationships with these guys (at first I did with one of the guys, BUT not anymore) and it sounds kinda kinky, and I want to get my bad girl side out of the way before I get married down the road. So...has anyone ever experienced 2 guys at the same time, if so, is it worth it or what should I do? I need some opinions on this because I've never done a 3-some before.

Answer 1

well if u do it ur stupid!!
that is all i have to say for it!!

Answer 2

Threesomes can be a bit awkward before/during/after.
You state you are friends now in many circumstances having sex with a friend can have some bad side effects on your friendship afterwards. Mainly due to the experience of the sexual relationship you can start to feel uncomfortable because you have taken the relationship to a whole new level. If you decide to go ahead with the threesome you need to be prepared for things to change sometime change for the worse. Its hard to know what will happen after the threesome things in your friendship could remain unaffected but seriously that's unlikely. I suppose having a threesome with friends is 100% safer than a threesome with strangers. But if it is a risk you ALL want to take then go for it.

Answer 3

From a guy's stand, P-unit nailed it. No decent guy will want to marry a girl whos been nailed by 2 at a time. And if you plan on hiding it and keeping it a secret, it wont work, trust me. It always ends of coming out in the end. But if you would like to be in porn, then this would be a good beginning. So take all those things into consideration

Answer 4

Think about this way... sure it might sound fun and all, but down the road, when you do find someone you'll wish to marry, will you be comfortable telling him what you did? Or will you be regretful that you did it? Or even too ashamed to tell him, in which case you'll be hiding things from him? And supposing you'll want a decent man, what do you think he'd think about it and react like? Don't think I'm telling you not to do it, just think twice, weigh the consequences and decide with a cool head rather than with a hot... you know what.

Answer 5

If you've never done a threesome before, then I don't know if you'd want to start off by doing it with friends. It might be very embarrassing and difficult to look them in the eyes after all is said and done. Will one of them like you after you've had sex and would it be hard on them trying to break the connection from you after it's done?

That's just my opinion. If I was to do it, it would be with total strangers that I would never see again. (But then that's less safe!) I say start off slowly with these guys. Hang out and makeout with each of them when the three of you are in the same room and gauge their feelings at that point. Then if you feel totally comfortable, maybe you can think of taking it further and further with them both.

Answer 6

I'm not sure how old you are, but you seem really young. I'll tell you this much...whoever said that these guys will be bragging about it after you do this threesome was right. If they say they'll keep it a secret, they're lying. Do you really want to be talked about like that?

I wouldn't do it. I have too much self-respect than to put myself in that situation. There's too many diseases out there these days...casual sex is not cute--not even to get your "bad girl side out of the way."

Answer 7

Are you ready for everyone to know that you were having sex with two guys at once?? It won't stay quiet...believe me...guys LOVE to brag about stuff like that!! That pretty much deems a woman a sl()+ if she'll let two different guys go at her at the same time. I, personally, would find it degrading. They're going to jump you like you wouldn't even believe!! You may consider half way into it...that you don't really like it! What then?? I just think you better put alot of thought into it. Good luck in your decision.

Answer 8

Personally I would not do it, but it is really all about you and what you feel comfortable with. Just think about it before you do it and make sure it's what you really want to do. Also consider how that might affect your friendship with those guys as well. It's all up to the three of you, and how you handle the situation. Good luck.

Answer 9

Look to be perfetly honest, I would feel flattered that you would actually get two guys giving you the offer. Look, good clean, healthy sex is great. Your not in a relationship. Like you said, why not before you get tied down and then all you can do is wish. Have a few wines first............ Happy hunting........

Just to add, make sure you are comfortable with the guys. I have found (not from personal experience) that guys only tend to brag if they get the two girl threesome. I have never heard guys talk about how "Me and me buddy had a threesome with *****........

Look at you judgemental people. Look into your own bedrooms, your own dirty sex acts the rest of us don't know about. Then who cares if she comes whinging later... Welcome to life. Welcome to the real world. If this is so shocking or hoish for people. Maybe you need to get out more.

Answer 10

girl, i know that I'm not really the right person to answer your question but i will answer because you sound like a real intelligent person. first of all people do strange things. sex these days (especially for us the youth) is just something that we do for pleasure, but you see me personally, i really respect my body and not long ago my b/f broke up with because i wouldn't have sex with him. i decided that the day that i want to have sex should be with the one that i truly love and respect and vice verse. it is really not a good thing when a person just wants to do things for the sake of fun Cox someday when you are married and have children you would not want your children to have 3 so mes and do ungodly things. I don't say that I'm perfect but you really need to think about what you want to do, and think of yourself, ask your self what is this doing to your dignity and pride. i don't say that you have to listen to me but what I'm saying is, when you lie in that bed with those two men, just imagine that it is your daughter ling there. good luck with whatever you decide.

Answer 11

If your over 18, then you will have sense not to do this...because it's not the right thing to do first off, second you could get a STD...third, you might have thoughts of this while your married some day...why would you do this stupid thing?