i have this guy friend that we have been really close he told me the other day he was really excited and he need some he made me feel like i should give to him i am no whore why would he do that would you of ask your friend to give it to you and would you of gave it to him?
2007-08-13 03:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by cynthia t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the hell are you saying/asking? Your question is as confusing as you are. An FWB is the same as a whore...the latter gets paid, at least. Just tell this guy that you're not interested in "doing it" with him...assuming that you're not...and let it go at that. How is he to know that you're not interested if you keep hanging around? Guys don't really need girls as "just friends"...you know? Girls and guys have totally different meanings about sex.
It's sorta like what Gayle L said below. To a guy, it's just something to do. To a girl, it's something to "share with someone you have deep feelings for". Can you see the difference there? I guess he thinks you're someone who'd share that with him. Consider it a compliment rather than something bad. He is your friend, after all...or is he? Perhaps you're sending him all the wrong messages by just being there so much.
2007-08-13 03:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been hinting around to see how you feel about it. Depending on how you feel about being intimate with him is up to you. You do need to sort out what this may or may not do to your friendship, will it hurt it, help it , or not change it at all? Women tend to be more emotional about sex, and men tend to sometimes look at it as maintenence sex. If you both can go for it without harming the close freindship you have, then what harm would it do? You may also want to talk to him about it.
2007-08-13 03:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gayle L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you're soooo gullible that you'd give it up "in the name of friendship" only and not have to be involved in a relationship. Too much of this kind of thinking going around in young people's minds today, where there is less thought given to what it means to have sex with someone for frivolous reasons.
2007-08-13 03:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea maybe he is just like that... but i would so not give it to him... and i would never ask that of a friend because i wouldn't want to destroy our friendship to start with... if one of my friends asked me that i would not talk to them for a while because it would make me unconfortable around them ... its not like you provoke him do you? if not just tell him how you feel about what he is asking you for... i would tell him to go to a club and do it with someone who is just looking to hook up if you know what i mean well good luck
2007-08-13 03:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he thinks of you as more than a friend.
2007-08-13 03:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he,s always fancied you and was too embarresed to say anything before but whatever happens make sure its what you want
2007-08-13 03:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by john s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋