I sometimes catch a young lady staring at my crotch, when I look at her she cuts her eyes away and try to act like she wasn't doing it. I want to approach her and talk to her romantically but it is so awkard at this point, I just act like nothing happened most of the time. How do I approach these young ladies who are always staring at my crotch?
2007-08-13 01:21:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the girls who I catch staring I actually like, so I am trying to figure how to approach her. Everytime I catch her staring it makes things get pretty awkard.
2007-08-13 01:29:54 · update #1
Can you please answer the question, and not make your on personal statements.
Yes, I know men stare at womens chest!
Yes, I know that I dont have to approach her romantically?
Why did that one guy tell me to get over myself, this really happens. You sound pretty insecure whoever you are.
But can you guys really answer the question about how to approach her, and not make your own personal statements?
2007-08-13 01:33:15 · update #2
I don't think you should... they were only curious...
2007-08-13 01:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by 12345 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I have been caught once doing this same thing to this guy I liked. He smiled at me and I smiled back. He then came over to me and asked if there was something that I would like to talk about. I did get pretty red in the cheeks but it helped break the ice. We still play the flirting game with me staring and he then winks at me. Use this as a chance to break the ice and I am sure you won't be unhappy about it!
2007-08-20 07:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by rcjusticegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you see this young lady again, just try to strike up a convo *before* she stares at your crotch. Just be smooth and talk about something like the weather or a current event.
If she stares at your crotch while she talks to you, I guess you'll just have to (eventually) show her. LOL.
j/k
2007-08-13 01:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay (I'm a woman in my 40s so it may not work with an insecure, shy young girl)...I suggest you get ballsy and go up to her and say something like, "It'll grow on you, you know"...when she asks what you're talking about...you can reply that you know she wants you...make it a huge teasing thing...smile big...look her in the eyes...let her know you're not afraid to talk about what she is thinking about. She'll get totally embarrassed and intrigued...then you'll be in a great position of power...and you'll have the upper hand...
2007-08-20 18:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by angieblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls that stare at a guys crotch aren't really that hard to get. Don't stress about it just talk to them!
2007-08-13 01:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Naka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no different to when a man stares at a woman's chest - it's not flattering so you shouldn't bother approaching them with 'romantic conversation'. They're just looking. :/
2007-08-13 01:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the ladies stare at your crotch just maybe you have a 'torch' hidden under your trousers.Next time when they stare at your crotch, you also bend down and look at it yourself.
2007-08-21 01:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by mako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you finding these girls, because frankly, I don't know any who just stare at a guy's crotch (unless the guy is naked). If a girl stares, it's going to be at your face, your muscles, etc.
2007-08-13 01:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well either you have got something that is worth staring at or you are always hard.. :S
enyways just act normal and be confident.. i think that is what you are lacking.. sure you got the goods but now you need to know how to act.. simple.. play it cool and take the girl out or something.. :)
2007-08-13 01:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chiv D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and ask her if she wants a better view. That will make her smile and break the akwardness and silence. Then you can ask her to dinner or something. Trust me it works.
2007-08-13 01:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by PATNDEZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm
Make sure your zipper is zip
Make sure to take the socks out.
And wear underwear if yours is the size of a marbles.
2007-08-13 02:32:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋