Like last saturday he told me, hes going to a baby shower on thursday in another town. he didnt even leave me an offline msg on thursday that hes leaving already, no sms at all or emails. its already monday. nothing at all.
should i be annoyed? i mean, isnt the sensible thing to do is at least leave me an offline msg or email or sms, that youre leaving?
if i confront him im sure hes going to say "didnt i tell you im going to a baby shower?" :(
please tell me if im out of line, thank you.
2007-08-13 00:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks kalangi.
i already told him about this before, and he says "i can see it bothers you, i'll try to do something about it."
but it keeps happening.
i feel sad, and i feel like he doesnt care/respect how i feel.
2007-08-13 01:12:52 · update #1
Love and commitment must be based on trust. If he were my bf, I would not be trusting him and would leave him before it's too late. The world is full of good people and I wouldn't sell myself short by settling for a guy who doesn't value me.
2007-08-13 01:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear you are not out of line. Every faithful and normal lady who is loving will feel the same. There is nothing to hide or keep to oneself between two who love each other... You boyfriend may not be feeling or just seeing anything funny with that and if you feel annoyed it's now for you to open up and tell your boyfriend about his weakness. It's not a must that you accompany him everywhere he goes as he might be sometimes going to business or family meetings where you don't need to be at this moment but he should inform you and while far from you, you will always feel still together. This he might not know unless you tell it all and he will also see that you care about him while you miss him around. Problems are not solved unless they are talked out. Talk it out to him and you will solve this problem and also get to know whether he realy cares for you.
2007-08-13 01:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, I'm suspicious about the whole baby shower thing, especially on a Thursday. These things are usually done on a weekend.
Secondly, if that's where he really was, then you need to let some things go.
2007-08-13 00:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋