Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out...expecting no more then a friendship?
I think he has a girlfriend, I am not sure and I note he has never mentioned her to me. We do talk a lot about personal stuff, he has given me some good advice about my life and in particular about how to split with my rather difficult b/f. I have never seen him socially before though.
I just don't know if its ok to ask him for a coffee or drink or something.
I can't work out how he feels about me either, but I need him as a friend. I doubt he would be interested in me, I expect he would also think the age gap is too big anyway.
2007-08-13 00:38:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like the two of you dont need to be with the ones you are with right now... Its okay to ask a guy for coffee... but in your situation it wouldnt make the people you are hiding your convos to happy... ask your bf first if its ok and let him ask his girl if she dont mind... after that then its ok... if you got feelings for the guy just say it... the way you talking about him it shows to evryone here that you feel that lil thing for him....
2007-08-13 00:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by fLaKe! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good Idea just say you'll take him out for coffee as a thank you.
You don't know if he has a girlfriend. I think it would be a lot better knowing for sure if he does and he might not care about age.
Geting help from someone who gave great advice and wanting to be there friend is very understandable. Go for it.
2007-08-13 00:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with either sex asking someone out for a cup of coffee, tell the person this just friends and just to talk, because you value his input and his friendship
2007-08-13 04:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's the guy has should ask, but as this is a difficult situation...I'd say you need him more.
Going out for coffee is a great idea, but!...you need to be certian he hasn't got the girlfriend knowing. She will feel threatened. (even though you are just friends!)
2007-08-13 00:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are not expecting anything else from him except for a sincere friendship right?So,there's no problem then..It's year 2007 my dear friend...but actually from my personal experience,feelings will develop in such relationship..it is up to u to control ur feeling then.
2007-08-13 01:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is OK. As long as he knows that you aren't trying to pursue a relationship with him, make sure he knows that you only think of him as a friend. Go enjoy a coffee! :) it's worth it if he is fun to hang out with. So you should definitely go for one! Theres nothing wrong with it.
Oh and if he has a girl, make sure he tells her.
2007-08-13 00:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by endlessly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely ok to ask him for a coffee. but if he has a gf, oh, that would be bad.
2007-08-13 01:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he has a girl first. if not, then yea. ask him. what have you got to lose? there's no set rule as to who asks who anymore.
2007-08-13 00:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋