Help...potential new dog...what to do?

Question

My neighbor adopted an 8 month old Shiz-Tzu puppy from the shelter (he was abused) now she has to get rid of it because he keeps bother their other girl dog..she asked me if I wanted him...I would have just said yes because I have grown attached to him and he loves me too, but I have a 14 year old dog now. I lost sleep all night trying to think of what to do...I don't want to see him go back to the shelter...theres another girl who may take him but shes only 16 and is going to school and working...she said she may not have time to take care of him.

I'm thinking though if I take him in, it will make it easier for me when my own dog passes on.

My neighbor even said she would help me with walking him, shots, neutered, etc.

I just hope I don't start to ignore my old, deaf, dog...lol

I live alone and should be able to make this decision on my own, but I can already hear my brother harping at me about this...I don't know what to do help!! Thanks

I mean figure this, I have to let one out, I let the other out too...I feed one, I feed the other lol no big deal...

I don't think my boyfriend wants him though...he doesn't hate dogs, but could care less if theres one around or not...

To Mr. " I'm too immature"

It's a very hard decision to make and I am just trying to see other points of view who aren't necessarily in the picture...sort of a "what would you do situation, that's all. My mom didn't give me any worthy advice so I'm looking outside the box. So there...thanks for your imput anyhow.

Answer 1

Well I think you are mature enough NOT to ignore your other dog. I have 2 older dogs and brought in 2 younger dogs (one at a time, one was a puppy I purchased from a breeder after a great deal of research on different breeders in my area) the other was a rescued pup.
Things to do:
1. Feed the older dog first (with the other's dog's food all set to put down right after you put your older dog's food down).
2. Pet the older dog first when you come home.
3. Cuddle the older dog just as much as you do now. Make it a point to pay attention to it.
4. DO NOT allow the puppy to taunt the older dog. Make it quite clear you will not allow this. My two younger ones are not allowed to do this and if they start they get picked up, told NO loudly and placed down away from the older dogs. Now they cuddle with the older dogs when they are sleepy but never ever tease them.
5. Take the younger dog for plenty of walks so he is not over zealous around the older dog.
It is possible to do. And you will not ignore the older dog if you keep it in your mind not to do so. But bear in mind they will both like different kinds of attention, the older dog wants to be pet, cuddled and loved, the younger dog although he will want that as well he will want to be played with. Neither of my older dogs cares a bit if I am on the floor playing with the puppies as long as they get their share of cuddle time. My older dogs do not mind sharing my lap (all 4 are small lap dogs) as long as the youngsters are not being rambunctious in my lap while they are trying to snooze.

Answer 2

O.k when you are bring in a new puppy but have a older dog you have to think about the older dog.. puppies can be too wild for the old guys..lol.. So i would take the pup for the day see what his/her is like with your other dog. If they get along the take her give her your good home .. You may be shocked the pup might bring some life back in the old guy good luck..

Answer 3

you will have to invest time and effort with both; one to train the new dog; your older dog already knows the drill; dogs will correct other dogs when it gets to be too much, they will let it be known; sometimes another dog will love the company to cuddle and have a companion that speaks their language; it takes time for any family to adjust but with love, patience and training, it can all work out for all; no favoritism; everyone on equal ground; only make the choice if you can stand by it and not change your mind; either you are in it both feet for the long haul or you are not; you need to make that decision and that is the most important one of all; will you stand your ground against all for your decision and the right of these 2 dogs; or will you buckle under any pressure i.e. boyfriend, brother etc. Make that decision first

Answer 4

Ok well i have a dog whos 14 years old and hes deaf lol i got a new puppy in january and they get along SOO well you have no idea.. your other dog will prob love the company and being able to sleep more knowing that the new puppy is there too look after.

Introduce them very well have your brother holding the new puppy on the lead and you hold your old dog. Bring them closer and closer yes they will bark for while dw..

Please choose to ahve it please tell me what you end up doing thanks!

Answer 5

This is hard. This is really hard.
Ermmm, maybe you should speak to your vet?
You say you have a 14 year old dog and he's deaf (yeah...its not funny) is he ill and suffering? Or is he ok? Maybe you should let your dog and the shiz-tzu meet? See what happens. Maybe you should keep them in seperate rooms to prevent anything bad happening? Sorry i cant help much.

Answer 6

To heck with your brother. It is none of his business. If you want the dog, and you sound as if you do, take it and give it a wonderful home. I'm sure you'll pay just as much attention to your older dog as you always have.

Answer 7

I would at least bring him to your house for at least 2 days and see how it goes with your other dog. if you live alone who cares what your brother has to say if it's like my siblings you can't quite always make them happy. I have always had at least 3 dogs and it is easier with the idea of one going. believe me you will have plenty of time for both.
Good Luck