2007-08-12 23:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by bhomba 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Remove yourself from your father as far away as you can. Banish him from your life. He's hurting you and himself and there's nothing you can do to stop him, you can only change your surroundings and that means telling him good bye.
2007-08-13 00:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by jacquie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better ask some of his close frnds to have a talk with him.
Don't let ur dad know abt this...just plan it accordingly
am sure that there would be someone whom ur father trusts ,right?...so let them have a nice talk...maybe those people can help ya out....
Everything will turn good!cheer up...this is not that bad...maybe he is just going through a phase,experiencing some kinda mental trauma.....
2007-08-13 06:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The light of truth shines in others too, even those to whom your father is confidant, and in time the truth will out, even if it's just a hesitancy or a doubt in their minds.
It's not easy being misunderstood, but you will eventually understand and learn how to deal with it as part of lifes injustices. Have faith in your own honesty and all will be well.
2007-08-13 06:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt usually say to do this but if u cant talk to him then say something that is not true about him to his mates and see how he likes it. if u dont want to do that then try talking to your mum or his friends and see if they can help. how bad are his lies? and do you still live at home? have u ever thought of moving out then he wont be able to lie about you coz he wont even know the truth then. a true farther is not one that lies about his children maybe he needs reminding of this.
2007-08-13 07:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by natz300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about it. He may not realize just how much he's upsetting you.
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2007-08-15 23:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much he is upsetting you by lieing, and try and put your point of veiw across, he may then realise he has made a mistake. talk to your family they might be able to help you. punching him wont solve it.
2007-08-13 06:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by pollyanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ht the prick, if he is treating you like a child then slap him like a man. He may be your father and you obviously love him but you have slap the people you love sometimes
2007-08-13 06:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same thing happend to me and you wont believe it it still happening but no mental problems as u said
2007-08-13 09:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can forgive him...and love him,...but if the people he is lying to believe HIM..then maybe it is time to move out if you are of age,..and make your own friends..i don't know why people do this to their own flesh and blood..but don't fight about it...just be very very cool...and if you can, prove the lies are just that
2007-08-13 07:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just get out of this mess..somehow make a plan to leave ..other wise if your not heard and understood it will esculate into something horrid...let it go..and move away..if thats possible...
2007-08-13 08:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by sheru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋