My Dream Girl?
I found the girl of my dreams and I am pretty sure she feels the same about me. I am 19 and she is 24. We have everything in common(She even likes boxing like me crazy), we r perfect for each other, we even know what the other is thinking. I have never felt this way about anyone before and just wanna be with her. The only problem is we are on opposite sides of the world. I live in the US and she lives in Australia. I just dont know if this can work but I will never give up though never. I have never kissed a girl saving it for some one special and she is the special one.
Has a long distance relationship like this ever worked for anyone.
2007-08-12 20:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations on finding someone you click with :] It's an absolutely beautiful thing & I'm thankful that I've found mine, so I know how you must feel. :]
First & foremost, I need to advise you that it is quite easy to lie online & put on a facade that is not your own. Someone can easily make up anything they want to & I just want you to be careful, because 19 is still young (I'm 21, not much older...but I still feel like we're young & susceptible to a lot of negative things...) I'm not implying that this girl has lied to you or ever will...I'm only cautioning you so that you don't get your heart broken if that's the case. I had a friend who fell deeply inlove with someone in the same manner that you did....he later found out that she was a completely different person than the one she portrayed online. It's was devastating. Please be careful....your heart is never something to be messed around with. There are sick-minded people out there who are quite skilled at lying to others...& the internet makes it even easier for them to do so. I sincerely hope that this girl hasn't lied to you.
With that aside, long-distance relationships are most definitely difficult. If you two are truly committed to each other, then there's a fighting chance. What makes long-distance relationships so difficult is the lack of physical intimacy...& I don't mean just sexually....not being able to hug them, kiss them, cuddle, see them [webcams aren't the same], just BE with them. Before allowing your heart to fully embrace this relationship....ask yourself if it's really worth it to you. If it is, & she feels the same way, then any obstacle you may run into, should work itself out. Maybe in the future, you two could actually fly out & meet each other....
It IS possible for long-distance relationships to be successful...my best friend & her fiance lived away from each other for almost a year.....& they're one of the most loving & adorable couples I've ever seen.
Best of luck to you, dear. Love is so precious & it's really worth living for....so I honestly hope this works out for you, if it is, indeed, true love. :]
2007-08-12 20:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have found your dream girl.......thats good in a relationship that you have things in commen and know what u are both thinking you are both connected to each other very strongly......... i bet she wamts to be with you to as much as u want to be with her......its shouldent matter were you live eather on the other side of the world or in the same place........your relationship will work out great if you both keep it strong and powerful while you are apart untill you both meet your one and only dream girl..............i bet she love loves you so much it drives her crazy that you are not there with here.......thats great that u will never give up on her i bet she wont give up on you..................u both are ment to be with each other and make each others life better and amazing...... it will work out for you both i know it will it has to
2007-08-17 00:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please be careful & make sure SHE actually exist!
you never know it could be some old guy behind the screen preying on you because you are still so young
so be careful!!!
I think if you want to date you should first try looking in your own area or country where you live
come on, there's got to be someone that you might like over there! It's just that, the internet is so dangerous, I just worry about this for ya
please be safe & good luck!
2007-08-13 03:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by the questioner 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For me love is subjective.If she really love you nothing can force both of you.That's TRULY LOVE.I'm guilty now because i had left my love.Just after 5 years, i am realize now how important he is to me.I do not know if he love me anymore.I can not tell him because we are far away.I advised you trust your love!!It will not satisfy you.
2007-08-13 04:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by sizuka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even met her yet and you're in love already?
2007-08-13 03:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by random girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at least meet her in person first.
2007-08-13 03:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by angel. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋