why is it such a big deal to me. all my bff have had there first kiss and im dying to have a boyfriend and kiss him.by the way im 13. but im not going to say yes to the first peson thats ask me out because im not like that. im desprate but not desprate i no it probalay doesnt make sense right now but... i want to just kiss the person i like a lot who is in 8th grade. why???
2007-08-12 20:06:39 · 24 answers · asked by I Heart Jared Millard!!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason it's such a big deal to you is because all your bffs have already had theirs. Do you think you'd be nearly as concerned about kissing if none of them had done it yet?
Don't always worry about going with the flow, especially when it comes to relationships otherwise you will end up rushing things. Don't let it cloud your view.
Middle school is definitely tough, hormones wise. People make a lot of mistakes. Kissing isn't something you should want to do because of status.
Even if I don't really think 13 year olds should be worried about kissing and relationships just yet, I understand what you're feeling. It's only natural to want contact with someone you like.
2007-08-12 20:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by enhancedbycolor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prayed for YEARS for a boyfriend, but I didn't get my first real kiss until I was 18 and I wasn't even dating this person. I WAS desperate. I can't say I regret it though because it was a very fun experience. Just keep asking God for that special someone. I got mine and I couldn't be any happier! Been with my boyfriend over two and a half years now and HE was the answer to my prayers!
2007-08-12 20:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by *~*BUNNY*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is really not a suitable age to love and moreover,the properage to love is after ur 16 bcos 13 is the age u need to know more about life well u will know more when u grow up but kissing in the age of 13 is not goo..i didn't hav my kiss untill now although i'm 16 so u should learn more than a kiss.ot far then relation is the things u need to know now
2007-08-12 20:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, I am almost 30 years old and I have never kissed anyone either!! There is one way to find out, if you have more courage then I have, walk up to him when he is alone and kiss him!! You have two choices, either he will like it or he will hate it!! You might get to know him a little bit first, people might think you are weird if you get up and start kissing everyone!! :))
2007-08-12 20:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey lesson its OK that u haven yet. ur not alone most chicks haven't. it only seems like they all but u. thats very wrong. my first kiss was not by a boyfriend. we were having out and it happened. i was happy CZ its like wow iv done but ur still have plenty of time so chill. im 24 and i still remember the kiss the name of the boy and his face i have no clue. u will be fine just be a kid cz that what u r.
2007-08-12 20:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation last year, im only a year older than u. and just go with the flow, my guy however was my best friends bro. so when ever i went over to her house to spend the night she would have me play trueth or dare with her bro, his friend and her! any how belive me this guy ur crushing might b the right guy, or just mayb a faze. its happend to me 2! but the opertunity will arise with the right guy, soon!
good luck!
2007-08-13 16:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by party grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. Probably you think that it would be 'cool' to kiss someone you like... But it's more than just being cool. A kiss is a special thing... I hope you can be patient enough to kiss the person you REALLY REALLY like... that likes you back.
By the way, I'm 13 too. >.>
Harhar.
2007-08-12 20:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by annyhc821 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why? cause you're a raging ball of hormones right now and you want to do what everyone else is doing. dont rush it. you want your first kiss to be with someone that you can always smile about... not some hussy you met in the cafeteria. you'll get through it, you'll survive. and sooner or later, it wont be so dramatic. we all promise!
2007-08-12 20:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kateyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal!
You ask why? Because kissing is fun! Even for those who haven't had their first kiss yet know it, it just LOOKS fun :P Who wouldn't want to get in with the fun?
I just want you to know I respect you and for being honest and not being "easy" with the guys. Just give it time, he'll come to you... (especially in Highschool...trust me)
2007-08-12 20:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body wants to experiment, your maturity wants you to feel the excitement and your need to be one of the others who had been kissed.
2007-08-12 20:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋