I lost my virginity at 15 with my fourth grade sweetheart. He was the same age as me. We went together for about a year and half until I moved. When we were together, we did it every chance i could. Two years after I moved I had a threesome. And i wish i didn't. It hurt so much i wanted to cry. Six months later, I met this older guy and we've been intimate every so often. But when we do it, it still hurts. I wonder why. But I noticed if we do it today, and do it tomorrow, there's no pain. But when we wait a month or two, I feel like my walls are riping.
2007-08-12 19:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by monstaboo07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe hes not wetting you enough and that its to dry i found that with guys a couple of time coz it cant slide in there it pushes its way in there so it hurts.
2007-08-12 20:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have very tight vagina and possebly if you don't get wet enough this combination will hurt. You can use a buttplug (but used in the vagina) to loosen your walls a bit. And buy vaseline too. You aplly the vaseline to the buttplug and insert the buttplug. You let the plug stay in the vagina for two or three hours every day.
Keep the vaseline clean! Use it only for your vagina. Do not let other people use it!!!
After some time (it depends from person to person), you just apply vaseline on the outer parts of your vagina(the entrance). This you do morning and evening every day for as long as it is nescesarry.
2007-08-12 20:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost your virginity at the age of 15 and still you continue to do so. Are you responsible enough to accept the consequence of your actions, like sickness, or whatever? Do you still fear of doing acts which are not suppose to be done because you are still young and your body is not ready for it? Wait then for the proper time so that you'll not be sorry after.
You seem to be concerned of physical hurts, what about interior hurts? I would suggest to have at least respect at yourself first so that others will respect you later.
2007-08-12 20:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by lui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple fact my sweet and i mean you are sweet heart and you should not be giving your self away like that your heart has let you know but you have ignore it and now you reep the pain of disobeying your heart which God has spoken to it your heart that which is good still because it needs true love that will embrace it back and embrace it again and every time its given away for self gratification either by you or your partner at the time your love comes back in pain and used.
2007-08-12 20:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Godknows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only had sex a few times that may be the problem. I bleed for at least the first five times or so. You may also be very dry and need something for that problem. It could be alot of different reasons. You should probably go to your doctor is this type of thing doesnt go away. Sex shouldnt hurt like that it should be enjoyable.
2007-08-12 20:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some of the ovious reasons of feeling hurt from sex is:
The average penis size that girls need is 5.5 inches in order to reach the G-Spot. Bigger penis could reach longer spots and make you feel painful, and uncomfortable. Does your partner have a huge size? maybe you just need to stretch a little bit in order to get the right feeling. I hope this helps.
2007-08-12 20:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by danny_69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your "older guy" will be in prison soon because you are under 18 and you will not have to worry about all this.
2007-08-12 20:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
either you're not wet enough or your vaginal wall goes back to their original size after a long period without sex, that's why it hurts.
2007-08-13 00:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by monofinity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could've been "ripped" ....that happened to my friend....it didn't heal for about 4-5 months......so if you wait along time and it's just got done healing then BAM it rips again but then it's not as "tight" tomorrow so it probably won't hurt that bad.......that's exactly what she said to me...hope it helped
2007-08-12 20:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by anjelfromyournightmare21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure he takes the time to stretch and prepare you the first time. I hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-08-12 20:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋