Ok so my boyfriend has been calling me to hang out and everytime he has called I have honestly been really busy. He called me yesterday to hang out but I was at my friends lake house for her mom's birthday that night. I told him that and asked him if he could hang out tomorrow. He said "I don't know I'm not sure." Well tomorrow comes along and I've been waiting for him to respond back to me if he could or not and he never did. Is he just being rude to me because hes mad that I haven't been around much?
2007-08-12 16:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either pouting or he found someone else to hang out with.
2007-08-12 16:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you think you were "rude" when you told him that you couldn't hang out with him because you were busy ?. I don't think so. He's not being rude neither. Anybody in his shoes would think that you're avoiding him, which it is not true, right?. He has a right to be mad. Call him up and tell him that you want to talk with him in person, then tell him what you said here, show him your question posted on this site, if you like, explain him that you were not avoiding him. You're wondering if he's mad , or rude because he didn't call you that day, imagine how he feels after you have told him again and again that you were busy. He can think: " why bother myself calling her, she's always busy for me ". If you really are interested in him, clear the air, correct misunderstandings, make room for him in your busy schedule.
Good luck!
2007-08-12 16:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. Id feel unloved. When a guy heres that he doesnt here the reasons, he hears that you are busy. Sorry to tell you but guys dont care the reason, they expect you to drop whatever your doing to hang with them. Yes its bad. Its not good that guys do this. But if a guy calls that many times and you say that your busy eventually it gets to him.
2007-08-12 16:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could look at this two ways. one it'll make it that much more enjoyable when you do get the opportunity to hangout. two if you both are close then he might be feeling left out and that he is not as important. last he could be paying you back
2007-08-12 16:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by sango w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, or maybe he's just being a guy. I'd suggest that you don't make a big deal of this.
2007-08-12 16:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya hes being rude!
2007-08-12 16:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEa, I would say so.
2007-08-12 16:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋