I've always believed in God but never went to church. I just got back from a Christian camp and learned a lot. My perspective changed as I learned more and more. I felt like I truly accepted Jesus and stuff then. But when I got home it was different. I told my mom how much I learned and everything and she's like, "well, I don't know. I believe in Jesus, but I'm not sure I believe he's the son of God" etc. And I really wanted to make religion somewhat a part of my life but I'm not sure how and it feels weird to be kinda more, like, religion-y than my own mom. ??????????? just say stuff that'll help :)
2007-08-12 14:51:12 · 24 answers · asked by Savannah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Be a Christ-figure in her life. Show her by what you do, that Jesus is really real and that he is working in your life. Ask God to work in her life and allow her to accept him. He'll allow her to come around to it.
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2007-08-12 14:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Take time to pray that the Holy Spirit will open up your heart. Follow up what you have learned from the camp by attending church services or youth gathering in your place. I'm very sure new friends will explain to you and guide you to understanding the real essence of salvation. Most people connect their faith by their religion but it is not the way it should be. Jesus didn't established a religion but He came to save the world. Church as people know is their religion. No, the church is just an identification for christians. Church in greek term "eklesia" meaning called out ones. That's the reason why many christian churches today have different names for the purpose of unique identity and still bear the Great Commission that Jesus had established.
2007-08-12 15:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religion is very personal. As Ive become an adult, I have a different outlook on religion than I use to. I definetly beleive in God, but I dont like everyone elses religious beleifs shoved down my throat. If I ask for advice, thats different. I think alot of churchs are just in it for the money, and alot of people that run to church every day try to cover up all the terrible things they do all week. Im not perfect, but I try to live a good life, help others, and I pray when ever, and where ever I please. I think the real religious finatics really have a problem, they carry things to extremes. God would look at some of these so called religions, and say what is this? Whatever you decide to beleive in, thats up to you, and no one else has any right to tell you otherwise. Take care, and Im sure you will find what ever is right for you!
2007-08-12 15:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you know what it's like to be saved. You become different and most importantly, you do not become a part of the "world" anymore.
I would suggest taking your mom to church next Sunday. Since she is your mother, I would refrain from acting "holier-than-thou" (in fact, I discourage it completely) around her. My mom is the same way, except that she does believe that Christ is the Son of God (she's a "Catholic in name" kind of person).
And just because you are saved does not make you a better person than your mom, either. The Bible says that you are to respect and honor your parents (see Ten Commandments for more info).
You may not be able to change your mom's mind but she will hopefully see that you will become a better person after your salvation.
By the way, a relationship with Christ is not a religion. The whole Christian faith is not a religion but a relationship with God and a lifestyle (though technically, it is defined as a religious worldview).
2007-08-12 15:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There comes a time in our relationship with Jesus that we have to make our own choices, no matter what other people believe or say. This is maturing in Jesus and your life with Him. It is okay that you don't agree with your mom. I know you would like her to back you up especially after all your excitement at camp. If it is okay with your mom can you go to church? You just need to be around young people to encourage you and grow. You have started a wonderful journey accepting Jesus. There is alot in store for you and your life. When discussing religious beliefs just speak about what you have in common. The Holy Spirit will speak to her and change her thoughts as time goes on. Just be a good example. God Bless You
2007-08-12 15:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your mom could have Bible Study together and learn that Jesus said, "I and the Father are One." And Jesus also said, "If you've seen Me, you've seen the Father."
John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son that who so ever believes on Him shall not perish but have everlasting life."
The Old Testament calls the Son of God, Jesus, the Branch.
So Jesus, the Son of God, is a Branch of God. Jesus said more than once in the Bible that He is God. I believe God is three entities, the Father God, the Son Jesus the Christ is God and the Holy Spirit is God. It is called the Trinity. God is not limited as man is limited. God even says that His ways are higher than our ways.
Get you a Good Study Bible. I prefer the King James Study Bible. The Book of John tells a lot about who Jesus is.
We are commanded by God to know His Word, the Holy Bible. You and your mom need to know the Word of God. We will all stand before God one day and be accountable to Him.
Apart from the truth of God, people go in circles. The Lord says, "my people perish for lack of knowledge." Learn the Word of God. Find a good Bible Study group and attend.
Don't worry about making religion a part of your life. Make Jesus a part of your life. He never leaves us or forsakes us.
He is our protection and provision. Without the Lord we really are nothing. Enjoy your Bible Study.
2007-08-12 15:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very happy that you have decided that you want to be Christian. I'm concerned for you mother, though, because if she doesn't believe that Jesus is the Son of God than she actually doesn't believe in Jesus at all. Please don't let your mother be a bad influence on you in that way. I know what it's like to be inspired and become a Christian, and then have certain people that become indifferent to you. They probably think that you're the odd one, but that's because you are when you are truly with Christ. It's natural for them to feel that way. But, don't let that stop you. It doesn't matter if you're more "religion-y" than your mother. There's no such thing as being too Christian or being "too into" Jesus. That's a good thing. I hope that you are more "religion-y" than your mother, based on what you said about her. You're either with God or not. And the only way you can be with God is to be with Jesus. If you keep the true faith, then everything will be okay for you. And if you believe and pray about your mother's salvation, I believe that she will be saved too. So, please pray for your mother and yourself, and I will too. God bless you.
"I am the Way, the Truth and the Life - no ones comes to the Father except through Me" (John 14:6).
"And we know that the Son of God has come, and [He] shall give us the knowledge that we may know the Truth, and we become born in Him in the Truth, by His Son Jesus Christ. He is the True God and the Life Everlasting." (1 John 5:20).
"We accept man’s testimony (about Jesus), but God’s testimony is greater because it is the testimony of God, which He has given about his Son. Anyone who believes in the Son of God has this testimony in his heart. Anyone who does not believe God has made Him out to be a liar, because he has not believed the testimony God has given about his Son." (1 John 5:9-10)
2007-08-12 15:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by michele840 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person. Do not allow your mother to dictate what you believe. When you stand before God, your mother, friends, family, coworkers, etc. will be no where around. Continue to go to church, forsake not the assembling of yourselves...Going to church is critical for your salvation, this is where you will learn, grow, and be strengthened. This is why so many 'Christians' are in name only. The Bible says that your Pastor will have to account for your soul. Find a good church, get in it and start serving God. You will face challenges and changes in your life. Allow your mom to see God's love through you. I agree that you to not have to act Holier than thou...God will touch your mom. If she wants to follow Him, she will, if she doesn't just pray for her. I am going through something similar with my mom. I just live my life and when things come up, like cursing, or swearing, or something that I feel is not Christ like, I let her know, she huffs and puffs, and we move on. Eventually, she stopped, and has even come to church with me a few times. Still working on it.... Keep your head up and trust God. Pray with all of your heart and He will lead you. Just make sure that wherever you are lead does not contradict the Bible. If it does, that is not God leading you. Blessings, Acts 2:38
2007-08-13 08:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by shustylz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank the Lord you were able to go to the camp. Don't let your new faith die. Get a Bible and start reading it (New Testament first). Also Proverbs are good. That will help you to grow spiritually. Pray everyday. Hang around with Christian kids if you can. Go to a good church if you can. Just be very kind and loving and helpful to your mom. You may be able to win her to the Lord if she sees a good change in you. Pray for her salvation. But don't talk too much about it or you will turn her off. God bless you. I'll pray for you.
2007-08-12 16:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Cee T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you fellowship with Christians its powerful especially when on a retreat. Its what you learn from one another about whats ahead that should help you defeat and overcome self doubt. Jesus is the son of God. Your relationship with God will be different from your mother and anyone else. Its more than just religion its having a personal relationship with God that is most important. Trust in him, pray and meditate.
2007-08-12 15:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Precious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship with your Father in Heaven is just that - bettween you and Him. Not bettween you, your Mom, and Him. Just you and Him. You need to develop a two-way relationship with Him.
Of course I would recommend you look into my Church but I don't think you'd accept it right now. I don't know why I feel that way. (I'm not trying to be rude but it sure sounds that way, huh? I just feel that you need to ground your faith in Christ or something...I guess I don't know what I mean! lol...anywho...I hope you understand what I mean...)
So, grow closer to your Father in Heaven. It doesn't matter if you believe something different than your mom if you know it is true. Heavenly Father wil reveal stuff (such as the reality of His existance and love for you) if you ask Him in the proper spirit. He'll give you the answer when you're ready. Live in obedience, do all you can, keep yourself worthy (worthy not perfect! :o)... James 1:5-6 says:
" 5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed."
Seek truth. Keep your mind open. Never give up. Love everyone. Ask questions. Make sure what you believe is true. et cetera ad infinitum...
I don't know if that will help but just stay srong...if you keep looking you will find more and more...
2007-08-12 15:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by Chris B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋