I have no friends, no job, live at home, and I just want to end it. Can anyone sympathize?

Question

I hate going outside because I see people having fun and I'm not.

I have a goal in my life but it seems so far away.

I feel better off dead. I'm such a pathetic loser.

Answer 1

I know how you feel, not a hundred percent because we are all different but I no somewhat. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I am on medication and maby you should go to the doctor as well. I often thought about ending my life because it seemed like the easy way out but it is anything but easy. The hardest thing to do in the world is live in it and I think that you should keep on living because what if something really good happens in your future and you leave this world and you never will have got to experiecn it? I hope that I am making sense. I also have a therapist who helps me thorough so much and she lets me say anything in the room and it is so nice to be able to talk to someone else who actually listens and I know that you may think that it is stupid to have a therapist but it really is helpful, trust me, but you do have to find one that you like because if you go to a ***** or an asshole like I have before it makes everything worse. Everything happens for a reason so right now life may be sucky for you but who knows maby tomorrow things will change. I know you may not want to go outside and I totally understand because I am the same way but what I do is just put on my ipod and it makes everything go away and plus you also may be feeling sad because not going outside makes you sad because you get your vitamin D from the sun and that helps with depression some how, my doctor told me that when I said I hate going outside. I hope that what I have said may have put a dent in how you think and that you will keep holding on and make the most of your life because good things will come your way but you cant just wait for them to fall in your lap, you also have to search a bit for them. I say you just go and apply to a couple of jobs and then go from there. Good luck and if you ever need to talk you can email me.

Answer 2

Im sorry I can not sympathize with you. You choose to not have friends, you choose not to work and to live at home. You say you have a goal how do you think you will ever reach it if you don't live? By living I mean get out find a job make friends and get your own place. Those should be the only goals that you are working towards right now. As for committing sucide well it is an end for you but a beginning for the ones you leave behind. The beginning of wondering why, what could they have done and years of hurt, anger and sadness all because you couldn't hack it. Get real. I know what a b i t c h that I am but you know what. I have been on my own since I was 16years old, I have been raped, I have been homeless, in an abusive relationship, drug addict, you name it and I can just about guarantee I have been there done that and have the scars to prove it and you know what I am still here. I am now in my very first home that I bought, have a wonderful husband, great job, and have been clean for 14years. So sympathy no.

Answer 3

How you are feeling is not normal. Have someone take you to a doctor. You may have agriphobia, depression, etc. These illnesses can be treated and you can have a happy life. It will take some time, but with help you can do it. I think you are at the point where you can't do it by yourself. Don't be ashamed that you have let yourself slide to this point. This is what these illnesses do. They slowly suck the life out of you. So as hard as it is to reach out and pick up the phone do it. Only you know how low you are. If you can wait for a Dr. appt. or walk in clinic, suicide hotline. Whatever it takes do it ok!
I used to get myself showered and to the Dr., But the shower and drive would make me feel better and the Dr. never saw how I really was until it was almost too late. So keep looking for help until you find it. I was treated 20 years ago, and I imagine the drs are better at diagnosing depression now than they were then. Take care of yourself, you deserve to be well and happy and it's possible if you go for help.

Answer 4

You need to realize that you have no friends because you don't communicate or socialize, that even the longest ttrip starts with a single step, and that by feeling sorry for yourself you'll get nowhere. nobody knows whats beyond life, so go outside and make the most of it. (Other people having fun shouldn't stop you from having fun too. Go find a hobby such as oorigami, cooking, playing an instrument, it doesn't really matter. Stop sulking. That will only make things worse.)

Answer 5

You sound like me except I have a job I hate. I sympathize. I used to think like that all the time until I realized only I can change my life around. It is very hard work. I am still nowhere near where I want to be. But life can be livable. If you ever want to talk email me. I am always online and a good listener. Alot of the time I just want to end it to, but sometimes my will to live is stronger. I sense yours is right now otherwise you wouldn't being trying to get attention this way. (I don't mean that in a bad way because I ask a lot of questions like this on here or did.) Hope you feel better.

Answer 6

Woah.
Thats a heavy question. But think about it, putting yourself away would only react a chain of horrible stuff. like think of all the people that would get hurt, like your family and such. theres no point bringing people down with you, anyone can turn their life around. get a job and after time that will basically deteriorate your other problems.

Answer 7

nope. i think a lot of people feel the same way. i have only one friend and she lives out of state. i am self employeed whick makes me poor. but then i can not keep a job so what is the use of getting one. and living at home is not that bad. at least mom and dad pays the bills. cheer up you are not alone. i know a guy he has 2 kids and is 38 and lives with him mom and dad. he works off and on. he does not have any friends either. i don't like to have friends they are a bother and can get on my nerves pretty fast. i rather stick to myself. i have no regrets either. why don't you start off working part time somewhere. it can help make you feel better. what is 4 hours a day working. then you can meet someone to hang with.

Answer 8

I agree with getting a job - it will get you out of the house and give you a sense of accomplishment! Or you could go back to school and get a good education, i.e. college or a trade. That will also help to achieve the same goals of meeting other people, help you to make friends and give you the skills to get a great job and give you confidence in yourself that you can achieve whatever you want in life!

Answer 9

Dont give up. Committing suicide is not the right way out. If you try it means you're a coward and you're not responsible or grateful. Don't give up just continue your life with some drastic changes that need to be secured. Go outside and explore the world. Have FUN!

Answer 10

The best way to make friends is to go to places where there are people. Go to your community centre. Go to a jobsearch website and start a job. No matter where you start...the beginnings are always tough. Try stuff you've never done before. You'll be surprised at what you can do. Think of it this way, if you want to make a change, take drastic actions.