Help with a girl?

Question

Last night i was at a party with this girl i really like and everyone was drunk and i brang her on a walk and told her how i felt about her and she told me how she felt about me and i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said that she wont say yes right now because we were drunk and she didnt know if what i was saying was true and told me to ask her when im sober. But today i was talking to her and asked her if she remembered and she said yeah so i asked her again and she just looked at me and started crying and said i dont know. she says she scared of something but wouldnt tell me. I need help with this because i really like this girl/

Answer 1

Tell her that she can trust you and that you are a really good listener and care about her.
She will tell you her problems, and in turn, trust you---- DON'T do this unless you are really serious about her, you will be in a world of hurt if you are looking for a booty call

Answer 2

She might be afraid of getting hurt in the long run. You should explain to her that if she really does have feelings for you that you might have something together. Tell her how you feel about her. Don't give up too easily. Some girls like to be chased a little bit.

Maybe she thinks you just want to use her for the physical contact. For some damn reason, I've struggled with this in the past. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl that was terrified at first that all I wanted was sex. I was crazy about her at the time. It drove me crazy enough to drive her crazy enough to just give me a chance and although we broke up a year ago, I don't regret a thing. We still laugh about how hard I tried at first just to get her to go on a date. She admitted she liked me and I wasn't about to let such an amazing girl slip through my fingers because I lost my nerve. Stick in there and fight for what you think is best for the BOTH of you. If you care for her and she likes you, you two could make eachother very happy.

For a long time, she was the best thing I had and a part of me still loves her. It probably always will. It doesn't hurt anymore though and I'm not going to let that fear keep me from finding love again. I honestly don't think I was equipped to live without it.

I hope things work out! Best wishes.

Answer 3

Dude girls like that u really dont want 2 b with cuzz they cry da instant sumting bad happens it mayb cute at 1st but it gets annoying!

Answer 4

WOW!

You are getting involved with someone with some serious unresolved issues, so make sure you want to pursue it before you do!

Try to schedule some time to get together just you and her, and see if she wants to talk about more about it. I wouldn't keep trying to force it though. Whatever's going on, she may just not be ready to deal with it yet. Good luck!

Answer 5

Go slow with this girl. Ask her to go out and do something with you, don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Don't put too much pressure on her in the beginning.

Answer 6

you and her need to talk about it she may be afraid that if she says yes you may expect more out of it than she is willing to commit to and we are all afaraid of the unknown she may have other issues that you dont know about so you need to talk and find out what the problem is

Answer 7

i think u should give her some space & let her know that u will be there 4 her know matter what she chooses

Answer 8

Awwww. Just support her, and don't be pushy but ask her what she's worried about.

Answer 9

having a bit-ch on the side is fine, just don't let it slip to either one

Answer 10

she is a physco. Get as far away from that girl as possible.