She touches my arms alot, we were doing a group activity at camp and she was the first to grab me and always had my hand/hands, and she touched my chest once. She usually does this in public. She stares at me alot and looks away when she notices me looking. We have went and seen movies together and watched movies at my house together. When she and a friend of mine go somewhere i usually end up getting invited. We watched a movie at camp and we were next to each other and she would lay on her side and rub her butt against my leg a couple of times then stop. At first i thought if was just an accident, but she did this act a couple more times. We danced to each other and everytime we talked to each other she would look me in the eyes and laugh or we would get about an inch away from each other
2007-08-12
13:23:24
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I mentioned a while back how i was feeling depressed(which i am better now) but i told her how i felt no one cared about me and she told me that she cared about me and she helped me alot to get out of the depression. She compliments me on stuff, but mainly my how i play guitar. She wrote me a note at camp and asked me if i read it yet on the way home, and i said no. I read it when i got home and it ended with love ya. IDK if she meant it. While we were at another camp she was usually always around me. She would come and find me and sit with me. Sometimes i feel like she likes me, but sometimes i feel like she doesnt really give a crap about me. Its like sometimes she wants to be around me, but then sometimes she doesnt want to be seen with me. Like the other day we were text messaging each other, and then sometimes i will text her and she will never reply back.Please help me. How do I make the first move, i am new at all of this.
2007-08-12
13:23:38 ·
update #1
Alot of this stuff happened at a camp we went to this summer. If you think she likes me, what would be the best way to tell her.
2007-08-12
13:24:45 ·
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Yes!!!.
To my point of view. "She's like you most".
She does not leave you in any activities and ceremonies.
She's showing off to others that you belongs to her and She's yours.
Ask her straight away.
2007-08-12 13:28:05
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answered by AHMAD FUAD Harun 7
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there are many solutions to your anguish. i'll give you a couple steps to try.
1. Calm down. She wants to be with you. Don't obsess over text messages- they don't mean anything.
2. Try sending her clues that you are interested- I don't know how much distance there is between the two of you, but try to meet her for a movie. You ask. You pay. Make a move, give her a kiss and just see what happens.
3. Judging by her reaction after this, you should know exactly what to do and just let things happen.
4. Girls don't like insecurity so don't beg for compliments, if you give her them, she may give you some back she may not, it doesn't mean she isn't interested. So act confident like you can show her that you could be her man. It isn't too hard.
5. The final thing I would suggest is to ask her if she's interested. There are clever ways to ask this, and I am sure you can time it just right. Honesty never hurt no one.
Good luck!
2007-08-12 20:33:08
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answered by samboroni16 2
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Hey Dude! the girl is giving you every signal she has in her arsenal of signals. You are not responding, that's why she pulls back. But she must want you for more than a friend or she wouldn't keep trying. A "friend" doesn't rub her butt on your leg or hold your hand or rub your chest. When you were 1 inch apart, that's when to move in for a kiss. Don't blow it next time.
2007-08-12 20:33:03
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answered by old beatnik 6
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I really think she likes u but she doesnt pay much attention to you because u never make the first move and that can get a girl desperate (the same thing happened to me) i think u should talk to her one day and be really close and then just tell her that u like her and se how she reacts and ask her if u can give her a kiss or just give it to her but slowly to se how she reacts............. DO SOMETHING!!!! u will be glad u did!
2007-08-12 20:32:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Oui, relationships nowadays.
She probably does like you. You might try asking her to a movie just you and her, and see how that goes, at some point (before or during) ask her if its a date, if she blushes and says "well yeah" then your good to ask her for another one when its over. If she says, "haha, I dont think so buddy" then your friends and it sounds like good friends, and hopefully you can continue to be such.
But from what you said, its pretty obvious she likes you.
2007-08-12 20:32:44
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answered by ? 2
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it sounds like she is horny as. i would invite her round and make a move on her. I deffinatly think she likes you.
if you text her and sometimes she dosnt text back i wouldnt worry too much. she may have just run out of credit or be doing something and forget to reply.
go for it. you might actually start to feel happy.
2007-08-12 20:30:36
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answered by trixydafairy 3
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ask her if she likes u, and if she says yes, you're in and it will be ace.
if she says no, u sound like u guys hav a good relationship as it is, so you'll have to make do with the lesser of two positive outcomes
2007-08-12 20:28:11
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answered by Troy W 2
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what more do you need woman want to be chased and you are not chasing her first come on to her a little and see hoe she reacts if she bags up than leave it along if she likes you it will show a lot more
2007-08-12 20:29:18
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answered by lovesshawnmichelle 3
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it depends on if she is looking for company or not.. by the sound of it she likes you. But be careful don't rush into you may ruin a friendship
2007-08-12 20:29:35
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answered by Anonymous
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This is something you should be asking her.Be a man!!!!! just ask her. If she really does like you she's probably waiting.
2007-08-12 20:33:39
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answered by Jynn 4
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