2007-08-12 13:17:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No. My love for my children is unconditional. If my husband betrayed me I would boot his *** out on the street. lol. sorry sweetheart. But I will always be a mother.
2007-08-12 13:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me the answer would have to be no. When I had my second child he was very ill as an infant and almost died. When he recovered I realized that my now ex didn't care about the trauma we had just been through, so when he told us to get out I gladly took my kids and walked out the door. If your in a relationship where you feel like you are raising your kids alone then it's time you were.
2007-08-12 14:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lostlove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a healthy family a mother/wife knows that her husband should be the head of the household. I think the love that she has for her husband should be different than the love she has for her children, but she should care for their well being just the same. I don't think a healthy family though puts their kids wants or what they think they want over what's good for the parent's marriage. They should be in agreement with eachother when it comes to dealing with their children so that they don't get played by their children. You have to think though, kids will leave the nest someday and if that woman has focused all of her time an energy into her children all her life, then when the children leave and she's left with her husband she barely knows him...which today leads to ALOT of divorces. The love is different but the same.
2007-08-12 13:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree that it is a different kind of love. Ask yourself this question, "What will happen when the kids are grown and out of the house and it is just you and your husband?"
My husband and I love each other very much; we love our kids very much, too. But we always support each other when it comes to raising our kids and making decisions.
2007-08-12 13:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a mom's love for her young ones has no longer something to do w/ the dad that's a bond that no person will ever understand till you carry and delivery a infant... that is unconditional and could provide your existence for that or any baby
2016-11-12 03:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a different kind of love. Your husband you love and respect so when you are parenting together that is so important. You never under mind the other parent, especially in front of the children. A love for your child is completely different! I can't really say I love one more than the other, since they are such different types of love
2007-08-12 13:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my kids and grandkids will NEVER, ever come in 2nd place to a man. I was married for 25 yrs of my life and have been single for 11. I loved my husband and never thought I'd be divorced and lookie what happens.... my children will always be there- the 7 of us spend most of our time together.
2007-08-12 14:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by nanny411 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh no.
The bond is different. I think a lot of mom's feel more towards their kids, In an emergency, I would die for my kids, but DH had better try to save himself.
2007-08-12 13:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by cogecojelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say if I love my husband more then my kids, but I do know that the love I feel them are different.
2007-08-12 14:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I think that some women do and would do anything (including harming a child) for their dh's/bfs. I don't feel that way though. I love them differently. I chose to love my Dh.... my kids came from me. They are my heart on the outside of my body. They are part of me.... and that is totally different than the love I have for my DH (whom I love dearly as well).
2007-08-12 13:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mercy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋