Okay girls what will you do if you are walking with your man and he'll be just staring at other women?

Question

I'm not that jelous but sometimes if feel humiliated he'll just look at other women especial with big ***, It's unfortunatley i am on the slim side but not too skinny. I asked him about it he said he can't help lookin you know. Guys you can help too, does it mean he's a dog or what , i really love this guy but this is really affecting me, what do i do.

Answer 1

tell him that its rude and disrespectful to you. if not, stare at guys when he's around ^.^

Answer 2

A quick jab of the fingers in the general direction of the eyeball should get a reaction - however, I wouldn't react, it seems like he's doing it on purpose just to see if you flip.

If he craned his neck around and made some sort of comment, I think I would just smile and say quite sweetly, I need a real man hon, not a boy who's trying to pretend and walk away, smiling. Catch the eye of any reasonably nice man walking your way and give him a wink - your boyf will probably clock the man swinging his head back at you, even if only because of the shock, and maybe let him know that you can play games too.

To be quite honest, he sounds like a w@nker who knows that you're smitten with him and gets a buzz out of winding you up - if he thinks anything of you, seriously, he wouldn't want to upset you - even if he thinks that what he's doing is harmless.

Sounds like he's a player - so inform him that if you'd have wanted a player you'd have gone to the local footy team as they are much fitter! Tell him that you consider weak men turn offs and that a man who drools like a dog whenever a wench with big juggeroons walks by is weak!

If you want to play then work it baby and play him at his own game - don't hold back, if he's self conscious of part of his anatomy, whether it's skinny forearms, big feet, anything, then make sure he knows that you just thought the bloke walking past two minutes ago was absolutely gorgeous and had the (whatevers) that really get you going, before saying "Sorry babes, and patting the part of his anatomy that he's a bit finicky with.

Personally, if he carries on I would just tell him to walk on by and then move on to someone who does give a sh!t about your feelings.

Answer 3

I think he's just looking. But I can understand how u feel. Maybe u should work somewhere else. Because even if u tell a guy to stop looking, it's hard. Girls look too. But I don't think we stare, men do. So talk to ur man about not staring at a vuluptous girl, but a quick look would be ok. U'll see what he means when a hot guy comes in.

Answer 4

Well, I can understand your situation. I was young and insecure once too. I have been with my BF for 6 years and I never looked at it as a 'disrepsect' issue because we talked about it. He would look and make a comment and even tell me to look - and ask my opinion about something. I do the same - we have that kind of relationship where honesty was always up front. When you are comfortable with someone, and your have more openness between you. You should talk to him and be open and honest, If it bothers you let him know. But don't think he won't continue to look. Ask him what is it about the 'looking'. You have to deal with your own insecurity though - you mentioned that you are on the slim side which indicates to me - he is looking at females with a little more meat. Just talk to him.

Answer 5

Yeah ... I agree with Afrtowoman... I actually look at females all the time ... but never stare in front of my partner... c'mon there is no need to ..

If I wanna look I can do that everyday on the tube... or when out with the boys... and yeah ..guys do this all the time... but the staring part ...no ... thats a bit much ...if you are the jealous type, he should curb that ... he can help it ... but doen't feel the need


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Answer 6

Tell him the next time you are on a date, or spending time together, and you catch him looking at another woman, you will just go home. If he drove, then call someone to come pick you up. It's not right for a man to be checking other girls out when they have a girfriend, let alone when they're with her. Tell him that you will go home every time he does this, even if it takes 20 dates for him to get it. Tell him that you're not breaking up with him, but you are just getting really tired of feeling like you are not the only woman his eyes can see.

Answer 7

he's urs, girl! but there r 2 parts to a guy. theres the 1 half the luvs u more than anything in the world, then theres the other half of him, who unfortunately, like girls with big boobs. Sometimes guys let out their other half. its ok. just as long as he doesnt go any further than looking, cuz u prob still look at hot guys too:)

Answer 8

Let your dog have a little leash! Let him look at other girls sometimes. But let him know why he loves you so much every once in a while with a really crazy date like bungee jumping or to an exotic place. If you keep him restricted to only looking at you, he'll probably break up and look for another girl who will have less rules. Just show him how great of a girl he has and keep him on his toes!

Answer 9

Depends on the situation, In the first place i would try to see if he does that everytime when were walking out on the streets or whatever. If he does that almost everytime, i would let the relationship go and find myself a better man that would respect women in the first place. If he does that once in a while, i'll wack the **** out of him and if he still does, well then I'll see.

Answer 10

I think he is disrespecting you specially in front of you. I wonder if he like big *** then why is he with you. Apparently you have quality he like and then the other girls feel the other void or what. It would bother me too and I would just not go anywhere with him and how you can get him is when you see a good looking guy find something about that guy that he don't have and compliment that guy the way he did you, he will sooner or later think twice, watch the jealousy on his face. Give him a taste of his own medicine in a lady like way.

Answer 11

Have you been with him for a long time?? I think that's a big factor sometimes....Because if its a new relationship you maybe not be 100% where you stand with him or how he feels about you!

I used to be like that when I first met my partner! I thinks its only natural but after 6 years Im stable enough in my relationship to know that who ever he's looking at is just to pass the time.......Who he loves is.......Moi

But I think all Guys look at other women However he shouldn't flaunt it in your face so......if it bothers you, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable & his reply will instantly tell you if he's the right man for you! If he is apologetic then let it rest However, if he's arrogant about it maybe you need to tell him to Jog On!!!!

My partner MUST look at women it natural BUT........I never see him do it.......He must do it on the sly....ha ha ha ha!