If your only sibling sent everyone in the family except you (including her friends) a letter every month saying how her and her family was doing. They call it the "Johnson family update"...EVERYONE gets one every few weeks except you...Would you be hurt or upset? Would you bring it up to your brother/sister?
2007-08-12 12:08:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would certainly ask her about it...sounds like she is deliberately trying to upset you.
2007-08-12 12:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No comments... I guess any of us know, deep inside, would know the reason why we don't get one; sending a letter just for the sake of sending it has no point at all; however, if "I" really didn't know the reason why, I would ask (and certainly apologize, 'cause it's clear that I've done sth wrong to this person in the past)
2007-08-13 07:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by inka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever get your hands on the update or hear about its contents? If you were privy to that information and you were talking to your sibling, maybe mention something that you found out in the update. Don't shy away from telling him/her where you got your information, either.
I would be pissed off and hurt if I was in your position.
2007-08-13 09:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd sent them my own news letters and write the most ridiculous things. I'd write things that would have them in a total state of confusion. Things like....and then she said no and he was like...you mean yes and she nodded and said no and then he went outside and that's when the cops showed up and arrested the other guy and then when the dog jumped up and caught him in the balls he sounded just like a yipping dog and it was awesome!
2007-08-12 19:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, are you and your sibling upset at each other? if not then yea, of course ask why your not getting one. just causally bring it up. "hey, about those monthly updates..how come you dont send me any?"
2007-08-12 19:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by lady aiwden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel hurt and left out but I never would say anything. If she wants to be that way, then I would just stay out of her way.
2007-08-12 19:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i ask them watz up in the most respectful way i can. be very nice
2007-08-12 19:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but may be i have done something that made them avoid me. if not then i should talk to them. its always best to talk don't assume understand the other party.
2007-08-12 19:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋