My sis thinks she's too young to fall in love. She's 13, and I don't know what to tell her. Is that too young?
2007-08-12 11:57:54 · 20 answers · asked by Sali 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No not at all. Don't you remember what it like to be 13. Everything in your world effects you so much. When you are happy you are ecstatic. When you are sad the whole world must end. When you are in love the Earth and sky revolve around the boy in question. Its just at that age it is a different kind of love than say at 25. My advice would be not to belittle your sisters feelings. Be open and honest with her in hope that she will always come to you when she is questioning something about her life. An open line of communication will help her to make good decisions when it comes to boys, sex, drugs and peer pressure. Let her know that her feelings have value and in turn she has value. A young girl who values herself as a person is less likely to fall victim to bad influences.
2007-08-12 12:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's right, 13 is too soon. But it's a great time to start socializing with a guy. The first time I ever had a friendship with a girl, we never dated. She was 13, I was 15. We didn't talk much, but we liked seeing each other in school and at birthday parties.
2007-08-12 12:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so once u start liking guys (10-12) u can soon fall in love. im a guy so i dont know if a girl is to young by 13
2007-08-12 12:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It isn't really too young to "fall in love." It is too young to actually be in a relationship though.
2007-08-12 12:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me whats the definition of love? If you can answer that then it's not too young.
2007-08-12 12:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course 13 is too young to fall in love cause u cant really fall in love inless that person u fell in love with will never break your heart and at 13 theres alot of tennagers that can do that so if ur risking to get hurt then wat the meaning to fall in love at the same age its better when ur older you will understand the meaning of true love.
2007-08-12 12:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by help!!!32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its too young to fall in real love but liking and short love is okaii at your age love is not simple it takes alot of work for now leave as a strong liking for someone
2007-08-12 12:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by sexyabomb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love? Yes, too young. Not too young to be attracted to someone, but too young to be seriously involved.
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2007-08-12 12:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you can have the feelings of love but not the maturity to handle the problems and responsibities of it.
2007-08-12 12:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because its never too young to fall in love
she has too experiment when she is readily
2007-08-12 12:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥wh♥tஐAre♥U♥Lஐஐking?ஐALEXANDRAஐஐ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋