2007-08-12 11:20:27 · 37 answers · asked by reddriveshaft 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd dump her, but at least she's honest about having other boy friends at the same time.
2007-08-12 11:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is ok to have as many boyfriends or girlfriends as you wish and even date them all, as long as the dating is good and clean and not of a sexual content where the spread of diseases could be a reality from having sex with so many partners. BUT, once you both choose to become the 'soul' partner for each other (usually when you start to go steady) then all the other dates need to stop but it is still ok to have a casual relationship with those people as friends. If you don't allow that, then jealousy can set in and make thing really hard everytime one of them is seen at the same party, etc. If you two are committed to each other, then you won't mind your partner keeping casual friends with them and it will help build trust between you both. I was close friends and finally dated a guy for 6 years. My school closed and we both had to go to a different high school where I met another guy. He was dating a girl in my choir class who became my best friend. Eventually, he stopped dating her and I stopped dating the guy I had known for 6 years and we both started dating each other. We are married and have been married for 35 years and those two people, the guy and girl we had both dated are still among our best friends.
2007-08-12 11:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by 'Sunnyside Up' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry - you don't have a girlfriend. When you are committed to someone (girlfriend-boyfriend), then it should be two in the game not -FIVE! If I were you, I'd make sure of how she feels and what 'her' position is with you. If you are looking for a single-monogomous relationship, you'll have to look somewhere else unless she is willing to give up the other three. Then on the safe side, have you considered if she is sexually active with all of these guys - and you? I dread the possibilities...
2007-08-12 11:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only best answer comes from you. What kind of girl do you want to have as a girlfriend? The one who enjoys being with you and faithful to you? or the one who is with you but with other boys? If you could answer this question, then you will know what to do.
2007-08-12 11:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by an ordinary girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and find a girl who will only want you has her boyfriend. Why the heck would you be willing to share the girl you like? With 3 other guys is beyond me. The girl is a player. People like that don't change. They just turn into wives that cheat.
2007-08-12 11:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. If you didn't have any commitment to each other about not dating others, she has a right to do what she wants.
B. If you had an agreement that you both wouldn't date other people & she dated them anyway, dump her.
2007-08-12 11:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend dude, obviously she has the pants on in the relationship so go find a girl where you are the man.
2007-08-12 11:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by the worr e ore 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Scare her verbally with out talking to her (this requires that she be in some where in back of you)with out doing what you say and then get a new gf.
2007-08-12 11:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont really care about her like you could move on then I say just keep her around for when your bored but if you really like her then talk to her and make her feel real bad then go find a new one! She sounds like she doesnt know what she wants.. so you should find what you want.
2007-08-12 11:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree, I offer secret strategy Delta Zeta IV:
codename: GTFO
2007-08-12 11:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by wing_ayalamon 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋