ok so my boyfriend is going away to college next week and we've been dating for 2 years and truly im in love with him. i one year younger than him so next year i will hopefully be going to the same school. my boyfriend really wants to go off and have fun for his first year which i totally understand and before him i had a few boyfriends but he never really had any girlfriends and he kind of wants to have an open relationship this year while hes away. like we would still be together but be able to kiss anyone else we want. only kiss. i really dont want to do it but he does and i just want him to be happy.. but i'm kind of a jealous person when it comes to stuff like that and i dont know how i feel about it. i cant imagine him being with any other girl and i just wanted to know im thinking about telling him i dont want that but do you think im being selfish by not letting him have more freedom since hes away at college??
2007-08-12 09:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How that people see things upside down these days? I'm sorry to say this, but I can't help it. Well, its obvious he should be faithfull to you since you are together if he values this relationship. hHow could he kiss another girl and say you are his girlfriend? This is not freedom, its cheating and its pretty obvious to me. Where is that jealousy for your man? You deserve a better guy, who can treat you with respect and love. If he wants to date another girl in the same time with you, don't accept it or he will loose all respect for you.
2007-08-12 10:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Maryam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being realistic. Nobody in their right mind would accept their partner having ANY kind of physical relationship with another person of the opposite sex! You are not being unfair or selfish by ANY stretch.
Tell him that you've rethought the "plan" and that you'd feel more comfortable with 'taking a break' from eachother. You can date whomever you choose to while he's away and he can date whomever HE chooses to while he's away. Tell him that IF the relationship is meant to be, then when you both come full circle and you are going to the same college.. either the relationship can be rekindled then, if it's meant to be or not. -
2007-08-12 17:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over hun, cut the cord.
2007-08-12 17:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋