They accused you of stalking a guy that you were interested in simply because you were 60 pounds overweight when you liked him? (I exceirse for four hours a day and burn 2000 calories in the gym everyday so it should take me 6 months to be 20 pounds under my ideal weight)
2007-08-12 09:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by think_of_the_bubble 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sent him 9 e-emails that he didn't reply to and then he told me he's been working 12 hours a day and driving for three hours everyday to get to work... and that's why he hasn't replied to any of my e-mails...
2007-08-12 09:55:25 · update #1
they wont be my "FRIEND" if they accused me of such a thing !
2007-08-12 10:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sidu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two unanswered emails is plenty. I would not call you a stalker, but I would say you seem to be a bit obsessive
about him. Nine emails, and wanting to be UNDER your ideal weight. Now leave the ball in his court. If a man wants
to reach you, believe me He WILL. Don't dump your friend
she did not know what to call it. She just knew it was something. Hope you are just overexcited and things work out for you. Good Luck.
2007-08-12 17:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, why would you wish to be 20 pounds under your ideal weight? That is simply unhealthy. And over exercising yourself will not help, either.
Anyways, to the original question. You sent him 9 emails? That DOES seem a bit stalker-ish to me.
2007-08-12 16:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would focus on getting healthy and not worry about some guy right now, that is a lot of emails. Seems obsessive. I wouldn't dump my friend just because I don't like what they say to me, sounds like they were trying to tell you some truth there.
2007-08-12 17:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but you sound like a stalker to me too . I mean 9 emails is a little overboard to me . I think you need to move on and get your life straightened out dont stalk someone that is scary . good luck .
2007-08-12 17:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i understand. My friends thought that I waz stalking someone bcuz I acciedently found out where he lived. But seriously its no reason 2 ditch ur friends over. Just tell them that its not stalking, u just are anxious to hear from him and that ur wieght has nothing to do w/ anything.
2007-08-12 17:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 emails? That is a bit obsessive... and I doubt you'll be able to burn that many calories on a consistent basis without damaging your health...So no, I wouldn't "dump" my friend...
2007-08-12 16:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes dump her. If the guy hasn't told you he minds you sending him emails. Than pay her no mind. As a friend if she thinks you can't get a guy because of your weight she is no friend.
2007-08-12 17:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't get the connection with the stalking and being overweight, but if you are harrassing him you're harrassing him. Stop e-mailing him already.
2007-08-12 16:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by paperpenandtea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you mad at your friend? If the guy keeps giving you reasons why he cant answer your e mails, back off, if he was interested he would answer
2007-08-12 17:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
STALKER!!! Seriously. Calm down a little.
the exercise regime is not healthy.
2007-08-12 17:03:55 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Riddle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋