My wife is pregnant and today she thinks I disgusting.
The sight of me makes her sick.
She was vomitting before because of me. D=
I'm sensitive and this hurts me.
The more I try to turn her one the more she gets sick.
What can I do to make this stop?
2007-08-12 04:16:15 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
were you wearing strong cologne ?????????
2007-08-12 04:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by mummy of 5 girls <3 <3 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure she doesn't really think ur disgusting! U must b a sensitive decent guy if you have logged on here for some advice on how to help her. Its just her hormones, and the scary thing is although sometimes she will be aware of what she is saying, she has absolutely no control over it. Perhaps its herself she sees as disgusting and that is manifesting itself in her behaviour towards you. Some women just don't feel sexy or attractive when they are pregnant, and many feel as if they loose their identity as a person in their own right and are now just seen as 'the mum-to-be'. Instead of concentrating on any sexual contact, try little things like stroking her face, holding her hand, telling her she is beautiful and how much she means to you. Do things like make her some tea with some ginger biscuits - this may help alleviate her sickness and your tenderness, care and concern will make her feel appreciated and cared for.
No matter how hard it gets, continue to tell your wife how much you love and adore her. Pay her compliments on her appearance even when it seems like she doesn't have a civil word to say to you. She truly can't help it but with your love and support you will both come through the other end.
Things will get easier, I promise. And just keep focused on the fact that this is the same woman you fell deeply in love with, and she with you. Its her hormones, not her, please remember that. And also remember that your little bundle of joy is a blessing that will cement your relationship and bring you closer together.
Take care, and good luck
:) xx
2007-08-12 11:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Squirrel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am taking yours as a genuine question... because it does sound like a very weird situation. --- My advice is NOT to push... NEVER push a woman. Ignore her. Don't try too hard !! If my wife is ever moody ( not infrequent ) I just carry on with my life around the house and our two kids and I give her space and time to let her come out of it by herself. Seldom do I go and ask her "what the problem is". She then gets tired of being silly and SHE, not me, comes around and joins the rest of the family. If this doesn't work for you and she still acts like that towards you.... then, my friend, consider alternatives... There are MILLIONS of women out there who will not find you DISGUSTING. She is the one who is weird and not you. Finding one's partner 'disgusting' is in my view worse than stopping loving someone....
On the other hand, some women when pregnant can behave very strangely. But finding the partner disgusting is a step too far, I think. Love is about feeling attracted.... not feeling disgust for someone. Hope this helps.
2007-08-12 12:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't take anything too personal that comes out of her month at times like that. If the two of you had a loving, happy relationship before she got pregnant, than its probably just the hormones talking. Some women loose all interest in sex during certain stages of pregnancy, so just hang in there and do the best you can.
2007-08-12 11:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nyx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try not to take offence, she is all over the place with her hormones. i can remember with my last pregnancy my hubby would walk in after work and id start yelling at him that everything was all his fault, didnt matter what it was, he was to blame. he just sort of kept out of my way til i was less freaking mental!
give her some space, she will be fine and it will work out ok
2007-08-12 12:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when woman get pregnant their hormones take a real trip on them.
don't think to much about it, its not really YOU, its just her. she has a lot going on in her body right now.
just try to stay away from her and be supportive in other ways, like cleaning the house and doing any errands that need done.
2007-08-12 11:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by 3 girls call me mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hormones...aren't they wonderful...
My poor husband has to deal with them as well, though I'm never that mean to him. He mostly has to deal with me crying when he is tryingt o joke around with me, something he isn't used to with me.
I know its frustrating for you guys. But just keep being there for her and as soon as she has aother mood swing , she should be fine and not thnk you are disgusting or anything like that.
2007-08-12 11:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the preggy thing. Pregnant women have all sort of funny feelings, do all sort of funny stuff and wanna eat all sort of foods (edible foods, I mean)
So this is one of those all sorts. Once this is over, trust me, she won't want you out of her side...
2007-08-12 11:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by narnia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay well out of her way...it's just not worth taking on the hormones.
2007-08-12 11:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by cleocat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just hormones dont take it to heart just support her in any other way she probably dosent feel up to sex at the mo,
2007-08-12 11:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get the belt out, that'll teach her
2007-08-12 16:10:31 · answer #11 · answered by beany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋