I used to get along well with this female coworker. I have a huge crush on her but now she has a boyfriend. Everytime we see each other I try to avoid her but she comes to me and is very friendly to me. I try my best to ignore her and send a message that I don't want to talk to her. She either doesn't get the hint or doesn't care and continues to try to talk to me and ask me to go out with her and others from work for drinks. She has a boyfriend so I try to stay away from her, plus she used to be very flirty with me and has suggested that the two of us hook up after a night of drinking. I don't know if she still likes me like that but I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend. But I also want her bad. What do I do?
2007-08-12 02:25:09 · 10 answers · asked by mama a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She is trying to tease you for her own pleasure. Yes, you should just smack that booty and show her who is boss. In fact, do it in front of your boss. He will get a newfound respect for how you "take charge" and "overcome adversity in the workplace". I say go for it!
2007-08-12 02:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Eric W 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
tell her that while she is still seeing the other guy that you have no interest in going out for drinks after work, etc. (although from what i feel from what you wrote, the relationship between her and boyfriend doesn't sound all that strong) you can be civil to her and keep the conversation light.
whatever you do DO NOT swat her on her bottom (esp. at your job site) as it can lead to; 1) sexual harassment lawsuit in the work place. 2) assault charges. 3) loss of job.
try not to dwell on her so much and get out and meet more people. you just might realize that she isn't what you really desire and meet the one who is.
2007-08-12 03:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by polgara922 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is having fun thinking of herself as an irresistible bombshell. If she wanted to date you she would have.
If you really want to stay away from her, which you should, because this is a workplace, and she seems like the type who craves attention, and a harrassment lawsuit would bring her a lot of it, just treat her as if she is a 65 year old man.
2007-08-12 03:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with her. But I wouldn't get involved in a relationship with a woman like this, she's a cheater and no good. She will do the same to you eventually.
So have fun with some no ties sex and move on. Be a man do them all buddy. Just use condoms.
2007-08-12 04:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky that you never got together with her. Do you really want a girlfriend who flirts with other men. Get over wanting her badly; she isn't worth it. You deserve better.
2007-08-12 05:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt care bout her boyfriend talk to her about it and shell explain maybe she isnt getting much attention from her boyfriend..
maybe she misses the way that you used to react around her when she still wasnt commited..
if she feels ok with it.. then just follow your hearth.. it wont be only your fault ;)
goodluck
2007-08-12 02:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by || GlaM BaBe || 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should have a good coworker relationship with her.
2007-08-12 03:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by nudle_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like someone needs to whip her cheating ***.
2007-08-12 02:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Angela F 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
heres your sign
2007-08-12 16:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by sleepy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,let me.
2007-08-14 06:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by iron chef 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋