hey lovers~
i dont get it......why is it good to have arguments once in a while,,,,wouldnt it damage the relationship?
2007-08-11 22:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Helps you ecpress frustration and communicate! If you dont it will stay bottled up and you may end up resenting your partner. Get it out, have it be done, then make up!!
2007-08-11 22:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by *star chick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every couple, regardless of how perfect their relationship, will disagree about SOMETHING sooner or later. If there are no arguments, then chances are that one or both is bottling something up, and it'll only hurt more in the long run.
Now this is not to say that a couple that argues every day is healthy. But an argument here or there never hurt anybody.
2007-08-11 22:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had peacefully relationship with my ex.
We never argue for 7years.
Now I am single again, and finding I wasn't myself for last 7 years.
I was bending myself to make him happy or avoind argument.
And I believe he was same.
It is small thing like I didn't drink coffee while I was with him, because he made tea for me every morning and I was happy with that.
Now everymorning I have choice of having tea or coffee.
I am actually enjoying so much to finding what I really like.
It is such a small thing but, there are more of small things too.
So in the end we find we are not really for each other.
I was in love with him so main concern for me is with him, didn't matter having stake for dinner or seafood.
But unfortunatelly passion will fade a way a bit after long time, so it is best to have argument ( not nesessary argument you can have discussion) to sort out what both of you are really happy or comfortable with.
I think if we did have more of them we are still together.
2007-08-11 22:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arguments & disagreements with your families... OR your other half, is all about voicing out your own opion about things you face in life..
As a couple..............this help you understand each other's likes & dislikes better.
But keep it civil... no name calling , digging out things that IS long pass..... maybe even before your time... like Exs etc.
A fair fight is always good.... better than bolltling up your feelings..
2007-08-11 22:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Y?? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arguments are like tests, they help u through relationships. if the couple can live through and make up afterwards that means they do love each other.
2007-08-11 22:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Boffin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, it won't damage the relationship if both parties care deeply for one another. If anything, it strengthens the relationship because you learn what hurts your spouse and what you can do to make them truly happy.
2007-08-11 22:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pink_lemur 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
clears the air
any tiny problems are ironed out before they build into major resentments, communication is key,
and making up is soooooooooooooo much fun
2007-08-11 22:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actual have self harmed on and stale for the reason that i grow to be 10 n im now 18, i latterly all started self harming returned, its like i wade by those cycles i'm going to diminish my self alot for a on an identical time as then think of to myself i'm going to give up and get returned on with my existence, yet then a year later i'm going to get particularly disenchanted sooner or later and after observing the previous scars i'm going to finally end up getting out yet another razor blade. I no that if my dad or the buddies i hav at school observed the sparkling cuts on my palms now they could be worrying and disenchanted and tellin me to give up right this moment yet i think of no one can convince you to give up aside from your self. As to why it feels sturdy, i dont particularly no yet for me its like a launch, ive basically self harmed whilst issues in my existence are depressing or insufferable, and whilst ive self harmed it grow to be in no thank you to kill myself it grow to be to a thank you to handle all the different discomfort and emotions that have been working by me. Like whilst my mum died 2 years in the past each and every of the discomfort that ran by me grow to be insufferable yet reducing grow to be the only thank you to launch all my discomfort, additionally it grow to be like the discomfort i've got been given on an identical time as reducing grow to be controllable cos it grow to be me inflicting the discomfort and it felt like a had some administration returned returned (i understand this probably sounds extraordinary however) maximum folk think of reducing is your attempting to kill your self which isnt authentic for most of the cases of self harming, for some its approximately staying alive or controlling the discomfort additionally they many times in basic terms assume in case you self injury your loopy or your a goth or emo or a young person searching for interest, yet thats no longer many times authentic. particularly the attention searching for area as self harmers many times attempt ther ultimate to conceal up the information so there no longer confronted approximately it.
2016-10-10 01:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SHOWS THAT U ARE HUMAN, AND IT HELPS U LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH BIGGER ISSUES U MIGHT HAVE IN THE FUTURE, LIKE WHEN U HAVE KIDS
2007-08-11 22:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by God's favorite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think that all depend of you, try to learn of your mistakes and be strong.
2007-08-11 22:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by moped 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋