LONG version of the unexpected... post?

Question

Summary of past history.
met her in the 7th grade, had feelings as i grew up and these feelings grew with me. I've shown interest in other girls every now and then, but i always found myself returning to her. She thought i was a big weirdo, and didnt like me at all, but i kept on....... Senior year of high school, she unexpectedly came up to me and expressed her feelings.. both good and bad. She also discovered that she had TMAU ( its a medicial condition). Its emberessing as a student to tell her friends, and her parents just rubbed it off. When she told me.. she cried, saying that she was just happy that she told someone and someone was supporting her the whole time. It may have been a rouph life for me and her with little history. But i felt that there was a very strong bond at the moment.

We became friends. I came over to her house alot, and we'd be close at times, when no one is around... But all the sudden... It all stopped.

We became friends. I came over to her house alot, and we'd be close at times, when no one is around... But all the sudden... It all stopped.

a year later I'm in college. We had little contact with eachother, but it doesnt mean we dont talk to eachother. I'm still supporting her to the best of my abilities with college, and work.... But at times... i feel unappreciated.

through out the year, friends told me, give up on her, shes not worth your time, even her cousins, and one of my best friends happened to be her cousin, bad mouthed her.. I eventually Decided to express my feelings of love, as i have always, and she had always knew.... and hate ( there are some pretty.... messed up things she has done which im not going to say)

Here is my orginal post...


heres my story in summary, I didnt something quite bad, to someone. I spoke my honest feelings of love as i usually did, buuuut i added hate. I hated her becuase so and so. And i apologized for saying such things a few days later, becuase it had something to the lines of, i dont want to talk to you ever again etc... I talked to her and she said it was cool and all, but the next 3 months after, She never picked up her phone. I call her almost everyday, nearly in every time period (becuase us college kids have weird sleeping habbits) but she doesnt pick up. I started loosing hope at this point... but then... she calls me...... We talk for a good 3 mins or so. And i ask her to call me back later. I expected her to not call me, knowing her that well... but an hr later she does.

Any idea whats going on in that brain of hers?

Answer 1

She could possibly be a little scared to get into a relationship with anyone knowing she has this medical condition. She may be afraid of hurting you, so she's pushing you away.

Answer 2

You told her you hated her and did not want to hear from her, and she is giving you some space.