i have ayounger brother and all he ever does is call me fat. And everyone says that i am so not fat, except for him. He always says my friends are to thin, but i weigh less then them, what should i do.
2007-08-11 18:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by TheLuckyOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i agree w/ nurses 4 ever
2007-08-11 19:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through the same thing when I was younger. My brother who is 2 years younger tormented me something awful. He called me fat, ugly, stupid on a daily biases. Whats worse he brought his friends in on all the name calling. Brothers have an unbelievable ability to find the things that are going to bother us the most to use against us.Even though the names have no biases it was very hurtful. Have you had a real heart to heart with him and told him how much he is hurting you. Even though he can be mean he is still your brother and I bet that when push comes to shove you will always be there for each other. That's part of being family. Pick a good time to talk preferably during one of those rare moments when you are getting along or write him a note. Tell him all brothers and sisters tease and hassle each other but sometimes he takes it a little to far and has really hurt you. Tell him that because he is your brother you love him and you would never want anyone to make him feel as badly as he has made you feel. Finally let him know that it would mean alot to you if he would really think about the things he chooses to tease you about. My brother and I are in our late 20's now and it has taken a long time to mend old hurts. We now feel more like family than ever. I just wish that I would have had that talk with him a long time ago.
2007-08-12 02:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well older or younger brothers always call u names like Fat a lil spoiled brat or so one will my big brothers call me fat all the time a b i t c h a stuiped a s s a spoield lil b i t c h and i always get my way well i try to ingore it but sumtime i get so mad and start calling them names back that always dont work so i tell my mom and she says sumthing about it and if they dont stop i leave or go to my room it all dibens on What u should do so u dont Kill ur lil or big bro
Hope somthing will work
2007-08-12 02:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...he's your brother he's suppose to make you mad. He has found something that iritates you and now hes running with it. As long as you let it bother you hes going to say it.
2007-08-12 01:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT HIS TINY LITTLE A S S, i let my little brother get away some stuff but when he goes to far beat the s h i t out of him :)
2007-08-12 01:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gilbert High 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a pic of him coming out of the shower and threaten to show it at school if he doesn't stop.
2007-08-12 01:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ignore him cause most younger brothers and sisters will do that and he might stop iif you just ignore him cause my friends younger brother use to do that and stoped once she ignored him.
2007-08-12 01:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his your brother, ofcourse his gonna say that to you. he knows its not true. brothers are always like that to their younger sister. my bf tells his younger sister that all the time, but he doesnt mean it.
2007-08-12 01:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother that he is not perfect himself he might like your friends.lol
2007-08-12 01:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by KATWOMAN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the family jewels and then maybe he'll stop.
2007-08-12 01:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋