ummm... do you think its wrong or disgusting if you like both genders?

Question

i have a friend who is bi that likes me... i think i like her back but im really confused... i feel good about myself when im with her... she makes me feel safe, secure, loved, and she makes me fell like someone really cares about me. i talk to her about EVERYTHING! i havent talked to her about this though cuz im scared and confused! shes my best friend! i dont want things to be weird between us, and she kinda has a boyfriend. besides, we would have to keep it secret from our families... but she did ask me if i was "like her" would i secretly go out with her... i told her yes, but i never thought that i really would, but now i DO think i like her... WAT DO I DO????? SOMEONE PLEAZE HELP ME!!!!!!

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with liking both genders. Sometimes you find things better in other genders. Someday you will find someone who has everything you are looking for and it maybe with the same gender. Just take it day to day looking for Mr. Right or Ms. Right.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong and disgusting about enjoying a person's company, or if they make you feel the way you describe. Hey, isn't that what we all want in a relationship?
Sounds as if she's given you the green light, though.
The only thing that I would be concerned about is the potential problems because she is involved with someone else, that could get kinda tricky! If you are fairly confident that this person likes you, it's probably best to voice your concerns. Maybe you could do it in a hypothetical way, and see how you feel about her answers.

Answer 3

Slow down and think more about it. You can still be great friends and talk about everything without going further. She seems like she would understand. Don't get pressured into anything you are not comfortable with. After long and careful thought, the decision is up to you.

Answer 4

if u like her then go for it. there is nothing wrong with being bi. there r lots of people out there who feel the same way as u do, but they r too scared to express it. over time they get married and they regret their past. dont let that happen to u. just be urself and dont worry about what other people think. its ur life. dont regret not expressing urself and having a bit of fun.

Answer 5

i dont believe having a relationship with the same sex or liking both genders is disgusting . those are your feelings and attractions and you shouldnt change them just because you think no one approves. though it could be wrong on both parts if you were to begin a relationship with her as she has a partner. if you really want to see what will happen with her then let her know but first she has to make the decision on if she wants to leave her partner as its really upsetting on his side if she didnt. having his girlfriend cheat with you and keeping him in the dark is not a good way to see if a relationship would form with you both.

Answer 6

It's probably not normal. But if you have had some drama or mistreatment from male and female figures in your life, you may have deep in your subconsious turned off a switch in your head to not be interested in the body of others at all. You have to ask yourself what happened to you when you were younger.

Answer 7

dont do anything you'll regret. Your probably confused, and you might think you like her, but if your best friends it could be like a sister, and not that way. Im not an expert, but I know that it is wrong, and you will pay for it in the long run. Dont do it!

Answer 8

maybe ur pansexual(when u like someone regardless of their gender) i dont really think being gay/les. is a great thing but i dont care if someone is everyone is different maybe u like her cuz u feel u can be urself around her

Answer 9

There isn't anything wrong with liking both genders. Talk to your friend about it and see what happens.

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Answer 10

Dating anyone, male or female, doesn't mean you have to make a lifelong commitment. It just means you're checking to see if things can get better.