because you are more attractive than them or does that make you a bad person to think that way? I used to feel that way when I was younger but now it sounds kind of shallow.
2007-08-11 16:02:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI....I'm just asking a hypothetical question. I'm not dating anyone right now, I'm just thinking back to a few years ago when I felt this way as a teenager :)
2007-08-11 16:10:56 · update #1
i thought that too at first when i was younger (he wasnt the best looking guy) but after some time, i matured and got my feet wet in the relationship, i learned that it doesnt matter, and that you really shouldnt care what everyone else thinks. no i dont think this makes you a bad person, or i would be a hypocrit. and i myself felt bad about it, but were only humans, and to say not to care what everyone else thinks is harder than it sounds. but over time you learn to keep your relationship to you (best advice i can give) and to love them for who they really are. again my guy isnt want the best looking, but ive grew to love how he looks and thats how he is, and i learned to accept him, hes the most amazing person i know.
2007-08-11 16:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not into sugar coating things, like others who say they have never been embarrassed. I've been embarrassed a couple/ few times at least. The woman might have a bad habit or is loud and rude or dominates the conversation with all my and her friends. Sometimes, when you just want to get some, you put up with someone for a while even though they embarrass you too. I was embarrassed to be with my ex wife. She would always comment on people's weight or insult them or she'd come up with some extreme lifestyle change, like going vegetarian. Many times, I've gone out with someone on the first date and was embarrassed to be with them, because they turned out to be completely different, were psycho, loud, bad manners, etc. Most people have been embarrassed at one time or another.
2007-08-11 23:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Staveros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get embarrassed because of that, then you are not only shallow, but you obviously don't care for that person much either. Real, true feelings for someone means you don't give a sh*t what anyone else thinks about them, as long as your happy to be with them, nothing else should matter.
2007-08-11 23:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by inkmansbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It wasn't because I thought I was more attractive than that person, because I don't really think I'm attractive. It was because that person was making a total fool out of hisself. He was drunk off his butt. He could barely walk and when I tried to make him go sit down he wouldn't and tried to keep dancing until he fell down. The problem was he was already my husband, but we were already having problems in our marriage and we were at my company Christmas party. He was totally embrassing me. I walked out and left him there and told him if he wanted a ride home he better get up and walk out that door or he would be finding another way home and we lived a 2 hour drive from there. You should never feel embrassed about being on a date because you think your more attractive than your date. Your date may think he is more attractive than your are. It's not whats on the outside that matters. Its whats on the inside that comes out that makes the outside attractive.
2007-08-11 23:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Icemaiden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why make yourself guilt for your own decision that doesn't have a value of a crime commited? If you date someone, it was your choice. However the embarassing thing is to date someone you shouldn't be dating or making a big mistake of double crossing the lines or boundaries. Your dating has been a secret and now its exposed knowingly it was wrong from start. However if it a boyfreind/ girlfreind or someone you are not closely related, be proud of yourself and take courage.
2007-08-11 23:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question there...pretty shallow of you. Who says you're more attractive actually? It's matter of opinion you know. Also, if you're embarassed to be seen with the guy you have NO RIGHT to be dating him, because it makes you sound shallow and confused. Figure things out and do what's important actually.
2007-08-11 23:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by mjciani916 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think it's that bad. Lets face it some ppl are made in God's image on the INSIDE. It's not bad to feel that way. Yes it will make you feel shallow, but as long as u love them it don't matter.
2007-08-11 23:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by science geek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay if you did not like the way that person looked then why did you date them...or stay with him or her I am guessing its a he!!!!
its kinda shallow okay real shallow I mean looks aren't everything
2007-08-11 23:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well How Bad does the Person ur with look??? im just saying... if u love em... get over it... of not... go find somebody on your level!!!!!
im Serious... I just got out of a relationship with a guy that looked like a spoiled ninja turtlE!!!!
2007-08-11 23:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by monicole2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was this guy I was dating in college who was soooo ugly, and he was a pig too which made it worse, (I dated him because I was kinda pressured into it), But I was always embarassed to be seen with him. I broke up with him soon after, for other reasons, but he was ugly so it was easier!
2007-08-11 23:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cita Bean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋