I've been seeing this guy for about a month, last weekend we spent almost the whole weekend together. Things went great. He even initiated going to a waterpark this weekend with my daughter and I. He called yesterday (Friday) and said he had to work on Saturday (today), and that we should go next weekend for we could spend the whole weekend at the waterpark. He said that he would for sure like to meet up sometime this weekend and that he'd call me when he's done with work (today). I didn't hear from him, so I called and left a message saying, "hope you still want to meet up sometime this weekend, just give me a call." Do I try again tomorrow? Or just give it a couple of days for him to call? How should I take this? Is he no longer interested because he didn't call, or am I expecting too much too soon (maybe he needs his space)? I just look at it if you really like someone, wouldn't you want to spend your Saturday evening with them? I just don't need games or confusion.
2007-08-11 15:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he does call back or I reach him, what should I say to him? I just don't like it when a guy says he will call and doesn't. I don't want to be a b****, but want to know exactly what's up. I mean it is just the beginning, I haven't known him that long, but I don't need this to continue when dating.
2007-08-11 16:05:46 · update #1
Don't call again, just wait until he calls you. If he doesn't call then move on. As far as him not calling I think you are reading too much into it, he was at work maybe he was tired or had something to do afterwards. Also your message and the fact that you called him so soon, reeks of desperation. Which is a major turn off. You really should have left it alone, and given him some time to call, at least until the next day. Men like space, not clingy insecure women, and thats what you showed him.
2007-08-11 16:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is olny one day imagine me?my boyfriend hasnt called me for liek 3 months well only about less then 5 times during these months and yet i must have aptience but yea patience is that key dont worry about it maybe hest oo tired maybe hes still working you just dont know give him a day or 2 just try to think of other things while he calls for the fact that we do get very worried sometimes we lose the patience and get very sad though...but yea just have patience but if he doesnt call you in 2 days then...ok there must be something wrong if he said he was gonna call though
2007-08-11 23:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like this person i say you be honest with them. I mean i am sure you both have taken to the next level well if you did then i say is time to have a talk about you not wanting to play games and that if he is serious of you that he should tell you.
I know it wont be easy but that is the only way you will know if he is serious.
Good luck
2007-08-11 23:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this one before!! There's three things that might be happening. One, he could be busy with work and just tired, (wants to be lazy.) Two, he found something else to do and is a player. Three, mybe he is wanting you to call to see if you really like him. I could be wrong on these, but i'm just trying to ease your mind. ( call him one more time but wait a few days, give it two days.) Hope this helps :=)
2007-08-11 23:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be. He'll call again soon. He obviously likes you and maye wants to slow it down a bit, or really has to work.
2007-08-11 23:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listern he could be busy working or just dont like feelng bothered i would wait for him to call if not move on.
2007-08-11 23:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Game players are always difficult to cope with. A lot of them out there are more mature, know what they want, and will surely want to be with you.
2007-08-11 23:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT PUSH HIM AWAY BEFORE HE EVEN GETS THERE. U KNOW WHAT I MEAN? IF HE SAID HE WILL CALL U THEN WAIT A FEW DAYS. IF HE DOES NOT CALL THEN U KNOW HE WILL ALWAYS LIE TO U IF U KEEP CALLING HIM. SO JUST WAIT AND SEE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-11 23:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by CONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to wait and do things with your daughter until he startsrealizing that he want to spend time with him that way your kid want get disapoiunted if he dosent call
2007-08-11 23:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by littlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try one more time don't leave a message if he does not answer after that then i think it is over
2007-08-11 23:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by joy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋