Ok, so I'm 17 and I've known this girl, who is 16, for 2 years now and I've liked her ever since I met her. She recently went out with me for 2 weeks and then she broke it off, but I can't stop thinking about her because those 2 weeks were the best 2 weeks of my life. My friend says that he thinks I'm in love and I'm kinda starting to agree with him, but I have no idea how to tell. I need some serious advice, cause I wanna ask her to try again with me again really soon, cause I want to be more than friends with her. so I guess I have 2 questions
1. Am I in love with this girl?
2. When I re-ask her, what do I say?
2007-08-11 15:12:27 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First find out why she left you and broke up with you.She may be over the whole thing and doesn't want to be with you at all.It will do no good to be in love with someone who doesn't want you.You just have a crush on her.It will last until you meet some one else.
2007-08-19 14:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-right now ur just head over heels u wont know if u love her untill u find out how she feels
2- Tell her that u havent stopped thinking about her that those 2 weeks were the best of ur whole life tell her the truth do this all in person like sit down with her and tell her (best if urs or her friends arent around to distract yall)
2007-08-11 15:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Surfing Babe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha. You make me smile. :)
Just the thought that you are here, posting this question on Yahoo! Answers means that you ARE in love with her.
But still, it is only you, yourself, who can confirm that fact. :D
Anyway, to get her back, maybe you should say: "Hi. The two weeks we've been together were the best two weeks of my life. And I am seriously honest about this because everything I say comes from my heart. Please come back. I won't be begging you this right now if I don't even care about you."
Yah. Haha. :P I just hope you can pull it off!
Good luck! :D
2007-08-11 15:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by annyhc821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure are LOVA BOY
And You ask her out by .. I really enjoyed going out with you... would You be intersted to go out again because i really felt the love BEBE ... lol
No seriosuly just say you really like those 2 weeks and your wonderful and just tell every single thing about the 2 weeks you liked and she will feel you and for sure will try again
2007-08-11 15:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love takes time, trials and tribulations to really develop. It seems like you really like her, though.
When you re-ask her, tell her what your real feelings are, let the words come from your heart. Sit down and think about how you feel first though, so that when you do approach her, you'll have ground to stand on and a flow of thought.
2007-08-11 15:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why does it matter if u title the relationship as "in love" or not? If you care about her and like her that much, talk to her, d*mmit! To answer ur question, yes, it sounds like you are in love. You should know better than me, though.
2. Just be honest and comfortable and try to make it seem like you will be ok either way...(what i mean is dont sound too desperate.) I am not your age or sex, so its hard for me to help u with what exactly to say...good luck
2007-08-11 15:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by amblahblur00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be love, or just the beginnings, either way you are really into this girl, so what is it goihg to hurt to ask her out again? at the worse, she will say no and you are still right where you are now... ask her why she broke it off with you and tell her how you feel.
2007-08-11 15:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so in love with her. you need to tell her the truth. tell her that those two weeks were awesome and you are sorry for whatever you did to make her break it off (even if you didnt do anything). tell her that you thought that the two of you had something special and you really want to try again. you sound like a really nice guy... i hope everything works out.
2007-08-11 15:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by laxgirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel i am in love with my ex i will explain my feelings and you can judge form that. I think about her and my heart drops, i wrote a list of why i love her it was a page long, i think about her all the time no matter what i am doing. I think about her all day, i dream about her almost every night. I am the happiest man on the earth when i am with her or thinking about her. If you really love someone you will know, it will overpower all the emotions you feel or be a combo of all of them. You will know i promise
2007-08-11 15:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably not in love love, but you most def. like her alot.
when you re-ask her out, just say hey, i know things didnt work out before, but i was hoping we could try again because i really do like you, and those two weeks were amazing.
just tell her how you feel. but not in the weirdo stalker kinda way like : i like you so much, i think i love you i think about you all the time, blah blah blah, she'll get freaked out.
and im not calling you a weirdo stalker guy either.
goodluck:]
2007-08-11 15:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋