ive known this girl for like a year now. weve beeen texting and been calling for a little bit. when i used to hang out with her she would sort of act like a flirt. then one day, i made the stupidest decision of my life. i told her that i liked her. she said that she looked at me as more of a brother than boyfriend. realizing the awkwardness we both decided to act normal and start with a clean slate. but when i saw her for the next time, i had the feeling that she was ignoring me and avoiding me. i dont care about getting with her anymore. i just want to re-establish our friendship because id rather have her in my life as a friend than not have her in it at all. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-08-11 13:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably will not feel comfortable around you again until you move on and find someone new. That will let her know that she is off the hook. When she sees that you have a new girl, she will feel comfortable being your friend again. -It sometimes triggers them to want you when they see that you are interested in someone else too.
-Take it one day at a time. -Good luck.
2007-08-19 09:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some time. I've asked out a bunch of female friends, and when they refused, they would seem somewhat standoffish for about a week or two. They're simply getting over the "shock" of being asked out by a "brother-like" friend. After that, everything fell back into place.
2007-08-11 14:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
^She's probably feeling awkward about the situation. She may feel bad because she couldn't return your feelings and doesn't know how to act around you.
Hopefully, if you give her some time she will come around. Let her know you are okay with the way she feels and you would just like to be friends, but don't push it. Good luck, I hope this helped.
2007-08-11 14:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa there! Maybe you should rethink the situation ' Mr. I'm in the "more of a brother" zone'. Move on and stop the self torture drooling over something you are probably going to have heck of a time to get!
2007-08-19 08:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by D Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me .
She just needs time to get over it.
She`s going to say that she doesn`t feel awkward or weird around you, but the truth is, is that she does .
Give her a little bit of time to get over it. After awhile, or a few days, or whatever, talk to her about it, & just be like i want us to be friends, i don`t care about getting with you or anything like that. Can we just become friends again? i really don`t want it to be weird between us.
So just talk. about everything. & hopefully she`ll get over it sooner or later(:
2007-08-11 13:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize for making it awkward between you two and ask if you can remain friends. Maybe she's getting mixed signals from you and thinks its best to ignore you all together to be on the safe side.
2007-08-11 13:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by determined_ladii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her again, and then find someone else that way she knows for sure that there is nothing left between you two... but don't string another girl along, make sure that you like her.
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2016-10-10 00:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by lishego 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being rejected from friends isn't so bad. well maybe shes not thinking or childish. i mean that is only reason for not seeing you or speaking now. but you can slowly talk to her and see her for while and not be bf with her its ok and i am sure shes fine with it.
2007-08-18 16:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us.
2007-08-11 13:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋