What is important?
You first have to go into the relationship as a WHOLE person. You can't go into it broken looking to be fixed. You also can't take on the daunting task(s) of trying to be the "fixer" of another person. We all have baggage but you must "emotionally throw up" before going into a relationship or eventually that "emotional baggage" will seep into your relationship.
Once you've established this you can enter a relationship only if you set down the ground rules of what's acceptable behavior. Your partner must respect himself/herself and if they do respect themselves then ultimately they will respect you as well.
You have to be HONEST about what YOU want. If you "lie" than you will get less than what you need/want and ultimately this will destroy the relationship!
You have to know how to communicate in a way that creates "results". If your aren't the best communicater that's okay as there are a million books and workshops.
You and your partner have to have some "common" things you enjoy doing together!
Hope this helps!
2007-08-11 13:57:38
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answered by howdy folks 2
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Honesty.
2007-08-11 20:48:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Above and beyond physical attraction- Clear, honest and open communications, shared values and mutual respect.
2007-08-11 20:50:25
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answered by Echo 3
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i think you need to respect your partner always listen without judgin, when in doubt put yourself in their shoes b4 yelling! be there with open arms when they need comforting and have loads of paitents! expect the same in return and you cant lose!
2007-08-11 20:52:21
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answered by Anonymous
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communication and honesty . good luck .
2007-08-11 20:50:09
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answered by Kate T. 7
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honesty, trust and communication.
2007-08-11 20:52:39
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answered by JackieJaguar08 3
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communication and commitment
2007-08-11 20:56:13
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answered by Kimmy 3
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To be kind and passion.
2007-08-11 21:16:34
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answered by lbelfer 4
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