Okay- so I like this really religious guy- we are probably going to start hanging out. Do really religious guys go for girls that are confused about faith??? I'm nervous about that topic. What do y'all think about girls who are not exactly that religious?
2007-08-11 13:36:15 · 15 answers · asked by Me! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
well I haven't been baptized, but my family is technically christian. I'm 18- and I haven't attended church regularly. Thanks for the help guys!
2007-08-11 14:02:50 · update #1
The Truth is about attraction and attraction to girl is up to imagination of boy about dream girl and the faith is trusting to each other now what religion or nationality does not make difference ,when trust is model of life.
2007-08-11 14:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule of thumb, "hangout" or thinking of long term "marriage" either and both should be approached very carefuly as you are doing. It would seem the most important "glue" between any two people is their differences or similarities. Differences will eventualy tear two people apart regardless of what it is. Based upon math statistics couple who share the same religious beliefs do better then those who do not. Both make mistakes when they think they can change the mind of the other person. One of the two may concede and move over to the other's view point, however unless it is a real "conversion" at some point in the future it may very well come to the surface and be very painful in the "breaking up". First start looking for some one to hang out with that thinks in a similar manner in which you do. It will mean far less heart ache and pain in the future.
2016-04-01 05:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure about what you think and believe is this really the time in your life you should be looking for any type of relationship?
Entering a relationship without a clear picture of who you are in your head can and will lead to losing yourself to the relationship and ultimately lead to your unhappiness with the relationship and yourself..
Take the time now to decide what you believe and get a good mental picture of who you are before proceeding to any relationship...
2007-08-11 13:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you mean by 'not that religious.' does that mean that you attend services but have not been baptized? You rarely attend services? Do not at all but would if he dated you? It says in the Bible not to be yoked with unbelievers. I do not know where you fall in there though. God Bless. Good luck.
2007-08-11 13:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't say what religion. i would say that Christan's are very much aware that many people are mixed up and wondering about God and faith and matter related to all of this.
i myself am a christian . i will have friends that are not what they might call themselves religious . some may never have darkened a church door. i hope they do one day. that is about all i have to say
2007-08-11 13:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it seriously.. which you are by asking about it.
Those who believe, as harsh as it sounds, should not be involved romantically with those who do not believe. Because when the surface things go away, the core beliefs will be different, and that does not ultimately lead down a good road.
However, start perhaps by talking to him about God and about relationships before you reach romance. You don't want to have romance just because it feels like it will be fun. Think about where you are going with it.
2007-08-11 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i met my best friend at church a couple of years ago and she really wasn't religious at all. she was pretty close to possibly losing her faith. it definitely wasn't a turn off (we dated at first), we just talked a lot on msn and i showed her the significance of our religion and i basically taught her what i know by tying it into whatever's going on. bottom line, i don't think he's not going to want to hang out with you because of that, i seriously doubt it if you guys have the same religion, any relationship always goes waaayyy smoother that way. but otherwise idk. depends on the guy.
2007-08-11 13:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would ask what you believed and then see if you were interested in my beliefs. And then go from there. The Bible warns that both should be of like faith to get married. And I have seen examples of this.
2007-08-11 13:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only confused about it, I don't really see a problem. But if you didn't believe at all and call me stupid and brainless like alot of atheist seem to do. Then there would be a problem.
2007-08-11 13:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by mad dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they most certainly do go for girls like that. he wants you to confuse him about his faith. corruption is a virus that everyone is begging for.
you might not understand due to not being religious, but irreverence toward god is hot!
2007-08-11 13:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋