There's these two guys at my school named Andrew and Jonathan and someone told me that they had a crush on me. All the girls think they're ugly. I think they're kind of ugly too, but if an ugly guy likes you, does that mean you're ugly too?
2007-08-11 13:35:13 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, that dosen't mean your ugly, maybe you just talk to them and they feel your a pretty cool girl to hang around with. Just be good to them. You don't have to go out with them. Just don't be mean. Cuz if they don't like you after that you might feel worse. Be nice
2007-08-11 13:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Angel L 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Congrats! You are a weibchen. Pardon my language, but you are. Get a life. Did you honestly think people would agree with you or even both wasting they're time with your idiocy and vanity? You should feel honored someone likes you--especially if your personality is so horrid and appalling. I'm sure that "all" the girls won't agree with you that they're ugly. Melodramatic and shallow. What has this world come to? Luckily, there are plenty of other people to keep the human race going strong--you obviously aren't one of them.
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I'm shocked reading all the responses. Obviously, there are too many shallow people in the world who think that they're the best thing that happened to this world. Honestly. Look up the word modesty. See if you can download it from the internet--seems a lot of people can use it. Congrats to all the awesome people who aren't boosting this obstkoff's ego! I gave you all thumbs up (yay easy points!)!
2007-08-11 13:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Red Tail 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what others are saying is really bothering you right now in the 7th grade. You have to learn not to let what others say bother you because that's all that happens in school--people judge others. The sooner you can learn to shut this out the better--once you're out of school this yah-yah about clothes and who you hang out with and what sports you choose is over. Remember that beauty is only skin deep. Please continue to be nice to these guys. If these girls keep asking if you have a crush on them, say, "No, but I'm the only one with enough self-confidence to have friendships outside of the normal circles." As far as the "ugly" guys, like I said, beauty is only skin deep, some of the most beautiful people are not the best looking. Things will change over the years. One of the "ugliest" guys in my high school class is very rich, and some of the girls wish they'd paid more attention to him. (And from my work experience, a lot of the doctors proclaim that they were the 'nerds' in school).
2016-04-01 05:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey here's some advice from an old gal. Never go for the extremely handsome guy ( or guys don't go for the drop dead gorgeous girls). This is the reason why: they are so stuck on themselves that you will be an after thought. Go for the guys/girls that are just average. While going for handsome I let my average Joe go and 35 years later I still think I made a mistake. The average guys/gals will make you feel like a million dollars. They'll be so proud to have you that they'll give you the world.
2007-08-11 13:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. If a pretty girl likes an ugly guy, does it mean they're ugly too? NO! LOL. Everyone has different taste and you cannot control other people's opinion so it doesn't mean you're ugly. Different people like different people.
2007-08-11 13:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by lucky_and_luved 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. It means they have no concept of their own league. However, those ugly guys might not have the average model look to you now, but when you are older you will come to know a man for his other virtues (like intelligence, humor, loyalty). Perhaps they see something in you thats beyond the surface. Don't write them off just yet. Always be kind. In years to come, it will be a virtue that will benefit you and the world.
2007-08-11 13:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by GeminiVirgo1971 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it do not mean you are ugly as beauty start from within the heart and it over ride the outer appearance. Therefore no one is ever to be considered ugly unless their personality warrants it. So it will not mean that you are ugly.
2007-08-11 13:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it does not mean you're ugly at all. People shouldn't like each other solely based on looks anyway.
2007-08-11 13:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why do you think they are ugly. There are no ugly person in this world. Beauty is inside. Try talking to them .
2007-08-11 13:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by BeezNeez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! LOL..
You must be kind though, because ugly guys generally don't have enough courage to let a girl know they like them unless the girl has been kind to them..that, or they don't realise their ugly..ha ha ha
You must be beautiful inside and outside : )
2007-08-11 13:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all . that doesn't really make sence..
haha, have you ever seen an ugly guy, crush on a gorgeous celebrity.. like, angelina jolie ?
she`s gorgeous & theres lots of guys that aren`t the cutest ..
That doesn`t mean she`s ugly..
So no, just because a guy likes you, & he may not be the most attractive guy you`ve seen, doesn`t mean that you aren`t attractive either.. & you know they could like you, because of your personality..
remember, it`s not all about looks(:
2007-08-11 13:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋