what can i do to make her want me badly..not sex but what would turn her on
2007-08-11 13:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Money lot's of money
2007-08-19 13:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking us to help you "turn on your girlfriend" not for sex, but just to turn her on. That's a hard one bud. Every woman is so different in what she desires and it depends on what kind of outcome you are seeking. You say "not sex" so I can assume just intimacy of some nature. Start by always listening. That's a real turn on for all of us women . You men just tune us out too often and then don't understand why we get upset. But really how about a drawing a nice bubble bath for her after work and making sure you have made dinner and done the dishes and did the normal work she would have had to do. Make some nights all about her and nothing about her. For once she sees you are trying to please her and only her it will really turn her on and she will reciprocate those actions towards you. Its the small things that really count when being in a relationship and being able to know how to interact with our partner. Talk openly and honestly about what you would love to know from her about how you can better please her in and out of bed. Tell her your true feelings and she will open up and tell you the answers you seek. Because we cannot give you more than generic answers here since we are not her :) I wish you luck and I know you will do a really good job.
2007-08-19 13:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by billies35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mileage may vary, but I find a back massage works wonders. Learn to give a proper one and nine girlfriends out of ten will adore you for it. Most major cities have some kind of massage school, take a weekend seminar or learn with your girlfriend... tell her you want to learn to give a good massage and ask her to give you feedback as you go along.
The other trick is not really a trick: watch her, and learn. When I'm in a new relationship, half the fun is getting to know what her little quirks are and where to touch her.
I've also heard that making a six-figure salary works. Kidding! Really kidding!
2007-08-11 13:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Owen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of her asking for what ever she wants or needs. You take the inititive in being very observate if you know before hand do it. Like if she looks tired, instead of her asking for a back rub just do it. That would really suprise her and it may turn her on. Just try it one time and see her reaction.
2007-08-19 12:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Saljoemike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so so so many answers to this
my girlfriend loves being kissed on her neck and everywhere really slowly
a body massage is incredible fun and works both ways, and its an excuse to get oilly and have some fun!
2007-08-19 11:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by David W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont' know what other girls like but i like the guy to tease me a little bit and bite my neck...oh man thats hott.. get me started and then make me wait untill i cant take no more.. i also like the whole barely touching my anywhere feels good gues it would be rubbing very gently with your finger tips.. yea try this..lol
2007-08-19 11:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by jamery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her laugh, be nice, and give her a lot of carnations, that is what turns me on, or maybe some chocolate?
2007-08-19 13:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen_Angel_Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most woman like receiving massages and kisses but i would suggest that you ask her.
2007-08-19 06:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm putting your hand on her thigh. At least that gets me!
2007-08-11 13:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by qteepatutee08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, be nice, be faithful----> most girls looking for those qualities in guys. Be there for her whenever she needs you, care for her and loves her,....
2007-08-19 11:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋