ok need some help, how can I get this guy to leave me alone???

Question

-He asked me out
-i said no, but it was ok if we were friends
- like 4 days later he asks me to go swimming with him, i remind him i just want to be friends, then heacts really inmature
-two days after that , he calls me twice
-after that, he asks me to the movies, i say NO AGAIN


i have told him sooo many times i just want to be friends!!!!

any advice!?!?!i really need some

he is acting like it is a date, not as friends

Answer 1

Well, how are you saying "no"? You have to be firm, let him know that you are serious. Don't whine it or smile and say sorry when you say it, tell him flat out "NO.".

Ignore him, avoid him, don't even look at him. Be smart and firm about where you stand. Don't lead him on or play any games.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

He might think that friends go to the movies and swimming though. So he's just trying to act like one of your girlfriends. Unless he is saying lets go on a date swimming or a date to the movies. In that case.....since he can't respect you're wishes to just be friends tell him you don't want that either. Tell him not to call you or speak to you again. You are not interested in being around him at all. You're probably being too nice! Some guys just don't get the point. He's trying to wear you down so you'll say yes. Don't go out with him if you don't want to. If you do you'll never get rid of him. Hopefully in time he'll give up and find someone else to chase after. Be tough! Good luck!

Answer 3

Go on one date with him, then go all psycho on him. Call him thirty times a day, leave loooooong messages on his answering machine, and if he looks at other women call him a man-whore

Though, I go swimming and to the movies with female friends all the time, just make sure to ask, Do you mind if I invite or he'll get the point that it's only friendship

Also men hear things differently then what women say
Example:
What a Woman says: Hello
What a man hears: You're so studly let's have sex

or

What a Woman says: I think we should be friends
What a man hears: I think we should be friends with benefits, giggity

Answer 4

What??? You told him you want to be friends, and you are here asking how to get him to stop asking you swimming, to the movies, and to stop calling you??? Those are things friends are prone to do. You could start by not telling him you want to be friends.

Also, women give mixed and even downright inaccurate messages, along with accurate ones. But even the accurate ones are prone to change daily. So, guys persist because the know that what they hear one day might change the next. Be patient, and consistent. And by all means, if you don't want him to talk to you at all, stop telling him you want to be friends.

Answer 5

If you don't want him to call, then tell him that you don't want to even be friends. The "being friends" thing usually means that he or she will call and ask you to do things together like go see a movie...just tell him that you have enough friends and you don't want to do anything with him...if he persists then re-ask that questions and i will further my answers....have a good one

Answer 6

YEa tell him "Hey Dude I was nice enough to want to be your friend and your still asking me out, SO you know I can do without friends like you so leave me alone and don't talk to me or I'll call the cops and tell them your harassing me" ANd if that doesn't stop him go to the cops and report him. BEfore it gets out of hand.

Answer 7

Don't friends go swimming together, go to the movies together and call each other.? Sounds like you do not want to be friends with him and you need to tell him that.

Answer 8

If he acts imature and can not stop then he really wants to go out with you. Men act like that sometimes and can not help it.
He thinks it will get your attention so you will talk to him. If he is a jerk and can not be nice then you should tell him to stop and you only want to be friends. You should talk about it him wanting to go out with you. One of three things will happen.
(1) You realize that you like him and go out with him.
(2) He will get embaressed and will not want to talk about it.
(3) He will talk about it and be shy at first then he will be comfortable to talk about it and could change his mind about wanting to go out with you. If that does not work, do not try and make him stop. Think about you and him going out together. You might want to be friends or go out with him.
Trust me. Right now I like a girl and she happens to be my best friend. I like her but it could ruin are friendship. Our friendship means more to me then the world to me. But I really like her. I am sure he has wanted to go out with you a lot of times. You may not like it but go on a date with him.
First you should not say it is a date. You should just say you are bored and want to see a movie or go eat something.
He will say yes, sure or I would love to. If after that you still want to be friends or if he still likes you. Then say that you he is your friend and that is all you want to be, and say that if you started going out with him it could ruin you friendship. He should understand. Also tell him he is a great guy but just a friend.

- Andy Bailey

Answer 9

I expect he thinks that friends go out together, like you and your girl friends do. He wants to go out with you as a friend. If you tell him you want to be friends, he cant see why you wont go out with him as a friend.

Answer 10

Obviously this guy doesn't get it that you just want to be friends. Sit down with him and tell him again that you only want to be friends and if he can't respect that you can't have any sort of relationship with him.