lol
2007-08-11 12:08:01
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Be honest.
Smile.
Open the door.
Give your coat IF they are cold (not often, but times come)
don't look away first if they look at you in your eyes (that I have only had told me, I do things my own way, sheer honesty, which seems to kill most people to try, but it's what I do.)
all depends on who she is, who you are, who you HAVE BEEN and same with her, and then those who can affect her and you.
I can't give you much advice with out knowing you. but never lie, and care for her before yourself, but that doesn't mean be a doormat, don't be used. Don't go fast, her comfortable mind is one of the biggest importent things, even if you are not going to date a girl, always always always put them before what you would usually do, so insted of a fifty fifty kind of care, make it eighty twenty. this is not a timeshare, it's if anything requires more then eighty percent of care on them, and less then twenty on you, make sure you are not being used. Horrid explination, but the point is gotten I hope.
If they still expect more, and never think about you at all, they are likely useing you, or going to.
Don't you be one of those people. Never never use another...if you use one who trusts you..it hurts them bad once they figure out what you care about. you don't know pain till you have a heart close to yours broken, and thus your own.
Honesty, Care
and Patience to wait..
why do you like them, mind, body or a feeling of a rush?
the second is not a reason. the third requires careful thought, and the first you won't know till you know them.
Love is not a few days to find, and certainly not first sight, rush perhaps, infatuation, curiousity, hopfully not lust, but..it happens.
anyhow, be well.
look for friends, then dates, then GFs then marrage.
Reft~
2007-08-11 19:22:46
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answer #2
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answered by Reft 3
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Ok listen, try being nice, say things like she looks nice, look at her when she's not looking and then when she see's you turn quik, ack funny around her like mess up a word or two, ack a littel shy but not to munch, when you talk to her mess with your hair a littel, tell good jokes but not too many jokes, find stuff she likes, ask her out, and show an interst in stuff she likes.Kay?
2007-08-11 19:16:54
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answer #3
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answered by HalloweenLover 1
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most girls dont like moves they know them all and sick of players they want a nice guy not to shy who will talk, listen be their self, and keep up a good conversation. just act normal talk to them i.find out their interest find something in common and have a converstation. if it seems like a hit then ask if you could meet them at a local place like a coffee house or small restaurant to talk again and get a date and time and phone number.
2007-08-11 19:17:42
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answer #4
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answered by denise m 1
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Bro, I'm not smooth either. IT took me NINE years to finally woo the girl I liked. Now we're married. I spent those years becoming her close friend, then the sparks just happened. IT's the sneak attack... when they least expect it!
2007-08-11 19:10:36
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answer #5
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answered by Wopsle 2
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hm... confidence my friend...
every girl is attracted to that, so get it out of you buddy, im sure you got some hiding inside somewhere..
practise with a friend, and when it comes to the crunch, just imagine its one of your friends, and go up to her man...
flirting is easy, and shold come naturally.. give the girl a sexy, hot "check out" look, if she looks back, then look at her again and smile....
omg..its so easy, just be confident
2007-08-11 19:10:00
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answer #6
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answered by Kendi 5
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Are you certain it ia flirting that you really want with agirl?
2007-08-11 19:12:59
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answer #7
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answered by anointedmama2000 1
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talk 2 them like there a good friend
2007-08-11 19:09:58
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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All you have to do is snap your fingers and the girls flock. Wait... that has never worked. i don't know. My advise to you is don't make out with her mother.
2007-08-11 19:14:36
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answer #9
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answered by Ilya S 3
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you can not teach how to flirt...its already there. its like who teach how to talk? you just learn it....but there are ways to improve it.
2007-08-11 19:08:33
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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just beurselfandnot handsy
2007-08-11 19:11:26
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answer #11
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answered by sexy lady 1
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