What do you tell a guy that believes firmly that he doesnt deserve a beautiful woman? (see below)?

Question

In other words, he feels he doesnt deserve what he wants.

Answer 1

he won't feel so unless he has done something bad or doesn't trust himself , he should first get rid of this horrible feeling and start doing something positive in his life then he will feel happiness especially by helping people

Answer 2

I'm sorry but why do you think that having a beautiful woman is so good? May be having a good girlfriend is more important? it's not a thing to boast. Relationship means love and that has nothing to do with deserving or not deserving... poeple love each other without any reason sometimes, it's a bit more complicated then you think. You're not in the market to bargain for love.

Answer 3

Here is a parable from the Islands:
A certain man was of small means and wished a wife of great beauty. He spied a young marriageable woman at the wash and saw in her a beauty untold. He took to her family 7 cows and her father said she was only worth 1 he insisted on 7 and took her to wife that day. In 1 year the family came to see what had become of their daughter and could not find her. The beautiful woman of the house had to convince them it was she. The father wept for had he seen her as she was that day he could have received 12 cows. The daughter was the beauty her husband saw because her family could not.

The same can be said of the husband - tell him you see in him all the wonder he possesses and to you there is no more handsome if it is not enough it is not to be.

Answer 4

There have been women streakers, but it seems to be more in Europe than the US. There was a streaker at Wimbledon during the Malavai Washington and Richard Kraijcek final that got quite a bit of notoriety about 12 or 13 years ago. There are instance of it happening in football (soccer) matches too. Usually, when it is a woman everyone smiles and has a good laugh. When it is a guy, people want to tackle and beat him.

Answer 5

I'd say the only man who doesn't deserve any woman of any kind is a man who cannot treat a woman with the love and respect she deserves. Women are not objects and should not be ranked by what they look like. There are plenty of beautiful women who are not worthy of the men who so desire them, as there are plenty of less physically attractive women who are goddesses in the heart and soul. You deserve only as good a woman as you can be a man, so perhaps if you are looking only for beauty in a woman, you are right, you don't deserve her.

Answer 6

Ask him why he thinks he doesn't deserve a beautiful woman. Which beautiful is he talking about? Physically beautiful or a beautiful soul? He may have some issues or self esteem problems that may think he doesn't deserve a beautiful person. He needs to gain some self confidence in himself. Maybe he isn't attacting beautiful women because they are not attracted to him.

Answer 7

hm, he sounds depressed or something...
tell him what a great guy he is, and everyone deserves to be with a great person, and enjoy life for what it is, a gift, which doesnt last very long, so take each day, and milk it to the fullest, as tomorrow may never come...

Answer 8

I would tell him to wake up,theres loads of "women" in the world and I seen a few MEGA ugly girls that NO GUY WOULD LIKE-and did not fall on face was born ugly.lol.But theres at least 10000 girls that liks u but u need to get out and go on hoildays :D

Answer 9

Everybody deserves the best the worlds got. No one should think they deserve any less.

Answer 10

I suggest telling him to get a bit of a backbone and to stop feeling sorry for himself; he can get whatever he wants if he puts his mind to it. If he rejects this advice, I suggest leaving him alone; it shouldn't be your job to cure his low self-esteem - that's a job for councellors! Best of luck.