I have been dating this one guy since wednesday and for some reason he has started saying that he loves me. how do i tell him that he is going to fast without implying that i dont love him
2007-08-11 12:02:02 · 17 answers · asked by only me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you like him very much and you want to date him but its to soon for you to say that you love him for a man to say he loves you after 4 days maybe he think he is smarter than you and hopes to have your company in his bed
2007-08-19 10:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if you were the guy and your girlfriend was saying that she loved you, then I'd tell you to blow it off...but a boy saying that's different.
Don't say that you love him back....when he tells you that, just smile and keep going with the conversation, or leave, or whatever you were doing. If he insists on going further - if he gets into your personal space, tell him that you do like him, but it'd be better if he backed off and gave you some breathing room.
2007-08-11 12:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rough. If it were me I'd just tell them the truth. Next time he says he loves you and you mean everything to him just tell ask him politely if he thinks the relationship is moving awefully fast, and you care about him, but you don't ussually say you love someone till you've been with them for a few monthes at least.
2007-08-11 12:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by will H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it =)
it may seem hard but its the best thing u can do without implying something else..
say... *insert name here* , we've been going out for *insert amount of days/weeks here* it's been SO great getting to know you etc etc.. and i really really like you..
and stop at that.. dont have but ifs etc.. just makes him think more.. OR you could always just smile when he tells you he loves you.. but make sure you show him that you still like him so he doesnt think you're just enjoying yourself...
good luck!
2007-08-11 12:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to get you in bed. I would just ask him flat out how he can love you if he has only known you for 4 days? It will probably egg him on if you act like you aren't interested. I would prolly just get rid of him Sorry, JMHO.
2007-08-19 11:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, dating for 4 days? How many DATES can you go on in 4 days? If he "loves" u now, HEAD FOR THE HILLS!!! He's nuts!!!
2007-08-11 12:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by jmdrt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love? I think not.
Tell him to slow down.If he says he loves you after four days it means one thing and one thing only he wants s*x.Don't let him pressure you into anything you are not comfortable with.
2007-08-11 12:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by waterlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. FOUR DAYS = 2 FAST
The guy is just saying that to get you to drop your drawers!
Be very careful.
2007-08-18 23:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that please slow down, we are getting a bit fast... let thing goes slowly.... but u are comfortable with the things going on... and you like/love him
2007-08-18 20:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda of weird he saying it so fast....
just be straight forward.
we just started dating and lets save that for later...
2007-08-19 11:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by xd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋