im askin this question for my sis she is starting to worry me. during the day everything is fine but when nite time comes while shes laying in bed she thinks alot about death like ho she doesnt want to die andif she died who would take care of her kids shes 22 with two beautiful kids and a grea husband why does she think like this willl she be ok and do the same thaughts go thru ur head? does she need a psychiatrist
2007-08-11 11:08:55 · 14 answers · asked by Samuel 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I 'm in the same situation , I think about death a lot but i don't see any thing wrong about it because it's the reality ,isn't ?
2007-08-11 11:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by sim sim 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He said rest in peace biggie cause he wanted him to die so he was being sarcastic you douche. he's dead all the things you listed are bullsh*t.. you dont make any sense and you're reasoning is invalid HES DEAD get over it. the facts aren't true if you knew about pac u know he wouldn't do that. im not trippin. im pissed at the fact that this gets asked 90 times a day online, and every where else for what 15 years and no one will let the guy rest in fcking peace already
2016-05-20 00:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be several things:
1) maybe it's as simple as she's reminding herself to get a will made up
2) she may be considering religion
3) she may be questioning her life & may need a new direction in life, like a part-time job or a new hobby or new friends, something to re-excite her about life again
4) she may have had a miscarriage & not told you, so is thinking a lot about death & grieving
5) she may have a mental health problem.
Just keep an eye on her, talk to her or talk to her husband about your concerns, & eventually it will get sorted out.
2007-08-11 11:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by embroidery fan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she might be stressed out, or possibly depressed. She should try to have fun with her kids and husband. Also, have a time to relax, her own time. If the thoughts continue after this. I think she should probably see someone about it. Hope it works out!
2007-08-11 11:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by wish&dream 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A counselor would definitely help her and I recommend it. That said, what is different about the day that she does not do this during that time? That is the clue to the problem. What changes at night time that brings on these oppressive thoughts?
Helping her to find the answers to these questions would help your sister. Be sure to let her know that you want to be supportive of her, and that will also make a difference.
2007-08-11 11:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like depression to me, as from what you're saying there is no logical reason for these thoughts. If this has been going on for a while I would consult a psychiatrist, if only a little while she may be ok so long as you recognise what's really causing the problems.
2007-08-11 11:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by matthewmooregirl 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think everyone thinks about their own mortality, but it seems to me that she is obssessing or playing with thoughts of suicide. From the OUTSIDE it looks as if Yeah she has everything to live for but suicide has no logic.
Obviously you care a lot for her that really helps but if you are concerned enough to ask this question I think you might want to find out what to do or not to do via a professional, I think she trusts you, obviously with her life and keep talking with her. Keeping the lines of communication open is really important, But I think it is a hard ask for you to cope with on your own just, but noone can force anyone to get help - just being their for heris fantastic good luck
2007-08-11 11:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's perfectly normal to worry about what would happen to your children if something happened to you. I'm only 24 but I still worry about what I would do if my husband died. I've always thought about my dad dying...he's 63 now. Death is something most of us try not to think about. But when we find out someone's thinking about it, we get carried away and automatically think something is wrong with them. Screw that! I'd rather try to prepare myself for my dad's passing then deny it and suffer more later.
Everyone says I'm young still but I don't feel it! I feel like every day is one day closer to my death bed. I try to live as much as I can every day, but it doesn't stop me from thinking about death and what it could bring to me and my loved ones.
2007-08-11 11:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Skyy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ah well, i think about death, cause in night time, your most calm, and usually people think about random stuff, like. well i think about death cause i dunno whats going to happen to me after. Is it going to be like sleeping for all eternity, never to wake up, just stay dead, or will there be a God, very confusing. For me, im 50 50 with it, but, in the end, i guess you just gotta accept your gonna die anyway, and just live your life as happily as possible. --However-- if this is not the situation with your sister, she can also just be really depressed about her life, and she just lost the will to live. I dunno, pick one.
2007-08-11 11:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
she is worried about it. its probably the ultimate thing that she does not want to happen, so its at the top of her head. its going to end up causing stress. maybe she needs to pray about it. she is scared of something. she needs faith
2007-08-11 11:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋