2007-08-11 10:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first let me clarify, I'm looking for a "good Christian man". My definition of good is 1. a leader 2. loves God 3. loves his family 4. supportive
2007-08-11 10:25:03 · update #1
have you tried going to social events you enjoy such as concerts, or museums to try and meet other men that enjoy what you enjoy
2007-08-11 10:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough question, I'm in the same situation, but vice versa.
Firstly were not to go: bars and clubs (but I'm sure that's obvious). The thing is, there may be good guys in those places but not many. After all I go there sometimes but very rarely have a meet good girls there.
Some things you could try are nature areas and nature preserves, with hiking and such. I like to go to those kind of places by myself and I'd like to meet a woman there, that would be cool.
Also you can join clubs, such as Salsa club or something along those lines. I have a good female friend and she tells me the cocky type of guys never do things like that because they are too wimpy, but usually the guys that do, do those things are down to earth.
There is always bookstores, grocery stores, or other places such as those. That's another place I go- bookstores- and if a woman approached me I would enjoy having a conversation with her. So maybe that could work out for you?
If you find any good places, let me know though (seriously lol).
2007-08-11 17:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by allistaken1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you mean by a "good" man? Probably somewhere doing some activity that you are interested in and enjoy. Then you will atleast have something in common.
More than likely, you will not be able to tell if someone is really good or bad (and that's only relative in terms of who "you" are and what you like) until some time has elapsed after you know them. Go out, do things you like and meet guys who are doing the same thing.... you'll find someone who is right for you eventually...... Time well tell how "good" someone really is for you and how "good" you are for them... Goodness, I hate that word.
2007-08-11 17:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wow I was in the same boat for a while but opposite cause I am a guy. First don't go out looking for it it will find you but don't take the good guy for granted because the girl I am dating now she is kinda insecure because she feels it might be a front. It isn't but she thinks so because she got burned by her last boyfriend.
2007-08-11 17:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HOW MUCH EXPERIENCE HAVE YOU HAD WITH A$$HOLES. I can bet that you turned down a coupe of good guys already and are just hooked on the bad ones. As girls grow up without loving attention from their fathers, its likely they will perceive it the same negative attention from there boy friends as adults.
2007-08-11 17:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by onesuperman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behind every good man is a good woman. Honey you have go out and fine a guy and make him good. Get him young. Can't teach an old dog new tricks !!!
2007-08-11 17:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this website is pretty good! And I'm a nice guy if I'm your age.
2007-08-11 17:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your definition of a good man?
and what is your defintion of a good woman?
2007-08-11 17:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Max 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At places that are YOUR common interests!
2007-08-11 17:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by 12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online..try yahoo personals...
2007-08-11 17:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by wdm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋