he really hurt me.also my aunt. i want to hurt them. want to make him regretful for doing this to me. don`t tell me that i shouldn't do it because if u were in my shoes u could understand. he broke my heart and i deeply loved him. please help make him apologize
2007-08-11 10:13:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he could leave you for your aunt...you don't need him anyways. you are much better off without him.and shame on your aunt too...he's just a guy ...she's a blood relative...don't worry about revenge...i am sure they will make each other miserable.just move on
2007-08-11 10:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by jazzy l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to waste the energy? If they were able to do this to you..then they care little to nothing about you therefore anything YOU do is not truly going to hurt them. As far as being in your shoes.. yes, there have been times when something similar has happened; however I probably have a few years on you and I've been able to just let it go. Sure, I've dreamed of this or that, but when it comes right down to it.. do I want to jeopardize my freedom by trying to 'get someone' - NO.
Yes he broke your heart and I am sure you are furious; however the more energy you put into this the more it is going to indicate that their actions have made you nuts.
Walk away.. forget about it.. YES, I know it is hard.. but you COULD DO IT if you wanted to.. You do not want to and therefore you are going to probably do something that hopefully at some point you regret.
Be a better person. Mature quickly and move on... you cannot and I repeat CANNOT make anyone do anything.. NO ONE CAN. This is something that you should have learned by now, but if you have not.. hopefully someday you will.
Relationships survive on trust and if someone hurt me like this. I would be very skeptical of their future behavior.
Find someone that actually values your feelings and your heart. I strongly advise you NOT to try and get either one of them back.. a broken heart is one thing .. but if you try to hurt these people i.e. their feelings etc. you may be biting off a bigger piece of revenge pie than you can handle.
I wish you well!
2007-08-11 10:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by 343 Remember 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
When u go to get revenge, u must first dig 2 graves.
Vengence is mine, sayeth the Lord.
He may never apologize and no one can make him.
Find another guy and move on. Your happiness despite this tragedy will be revenge enough.
Let them both wallow in their self-pitty.
Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-08-11 10:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Why bring yourself down to their level. They sound like real trash and by scheming to enact some kind of master plan to get back at them you are investing way to much time and effort. It will never give you the satisfaction you are searching for. Only make you as trashy as they are. Pick yourself up and find some constructive ways to work through your hurt. Hanging on to your anger and being bitter and resentful will only bring you down more. By getting on with your life you open the door to bigger and better possibility's such as better friends, a healthy self image, and a sense of fulfillment of your life. These things are key in attracting positive people who will enrich your life. The best possible revenge is for the people who have hurt you to run into you one day and realize that you are way out of their league and kick themselves in the a** that they didn't hold on to you while they had a chance.
2007-08-11 10:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Claudia, there is no such concern as revenge while it incorporates emotions. The sweetest revenge is to go on and not in any respect look back at him. he will he extra harm by way of that than any of the failings mentioned in the previous like throwing paint on a motor vehicle. you will get in hardship for that. communicate approximately you and your chum in working to come back your real friendship. that stands out as the excellent revenge of all.
2016-11-12 01:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wow thats pretty harsh your aunt?...what a *****((no offence)) Well anyway if he told you any secrets that he never would want anyone else to know tell everybody or you could always tell your aunt he was abusive and tried raping you once but you forgave him or something like that this way u will make ur aunt brake up with him n no body would EVER believe him because your a poor defenceless girl. Have Fun!
2007-08-11 10:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Smartie 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't waste you time doing anything, you'll going to the same level that he is. Just show some indiference. I know it's not easy, but as time passes by, you'll see that it was the best. And I say that because later on you'll realize that a guy like that is worthless. You deserve a lot better. Don't waste your precious time with $%#&*
Wish you the best =)
2007-08-11 10:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes.... I have had many terrible terrible things happen to me, and never once seeked reveng and I am a happy person, with someone that i love...
2007-08-11 10:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is ignorance. And get a real man.
Revenge is never a good thing.
2007-08-11 10:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make up a job resume for both of them. For a contact phone number list their bosses at work. Send it to as many job listings or head hunters as possible. He may not apologize but you'll get your revenge.
2007-08-11 10:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋