2007-08-11 10:08:26 · 13 answers · asked by Julie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They do not. They tend to want love in their life so badly that they accept something that is not love for love.
Crushes pass. Limerence goes away. Romance fades. Love endures forever.
2007-08-11 10:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
OMG what a deep question...
This is just my opinion on the question...Love endures forever...that is not say that you will forever stay IN LOVE. I've only been in love a few time (I can literally count my past loves on one hand and have a finger or two left) and to this day I still love each of them. At some point I changed or he changed or maybe we both changed and started to go in different directions and feel differently about life. But no mater who or what changed I will forever love each of them....I just was no longer in love with them.
I was once told by a gentleman that had been married for more than 34 years at the time the reason that his marriage had endured the test of time was because they (him nor his spouse) never fell out of love at the same time. He stated that if it is true love that as long as one is still feeling the love that you must fight and hold on until the other one realizes that the relationship is worth the fight. So in short to make it last two people must never fall out of love at the same time.
I hope my husband and I can remember this during the rough times and make it last forever.
Hope you get the answer you are looking for!
2007-08-11 18:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This the #1 question of all time. And I don't think anyone will ever know the answer. Well I should say the true answer, seeing is how everyone has there reasons. It could be your partner find someone else or maybe they fought forced in to a relationship that they wasn't ready for. There are so may answers to this question. I hope you find the one your looking for.
2007-08-11 17:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Raqi Killer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all change. Not only our personalities, but our goals, interests, needs, and so on. It's possible that the love is still there, but it just requires a lot of work, and time to be rekindled.
Our lives are long and it's healthy and a blessing to love several people in your lifetime.
2007-08-11 17:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life has taught me to live one day at a time if it is ment to be it will be. never expect and u will never get hurt. Learn to walk away if things go wrong and dont run after noone they will come back to u if they need u. walk tall and u wont get walk on
2007-08-11 17:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by diamondjade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..deep question. Well, my theory is if that "spark" is gone or they're personalities just stop mixing...I've gotten tired of people I like when I spend too much time with them..could be the same thing with lovers.
2007-08-11 17:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.they were never truly in love to begin wit or 2.have new light in life expectin more in there mate
2007-08-11 17:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by ilovejemeice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes because you thought both loved each other. Or has another girlfriend or wife.
2007-08-11 17:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. :'( That question makes me want to go out and buy a humongous ice-cream sundae. :'(
2007-08-11 17:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by cherrychapstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control your heart if it stops loving it stops loving.
2007-08-11 17:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by wwe2cool4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋