i have a close friend who i realy realy like but he has a girlfriend so i know its never going 2 happen. but how do i forget about him? hes a close friend and im always with him at school, theres no way i ccan ignore or avoid him. plz help, how do i not feel this way about him???
2007-08-11 08:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to distance yourself from him just a little bit more until you're ready to see him with another girl. But if it is totally impossible to not see him for awhile, would you consider letting him know how you feel about him? This is kind of tricky though. If he already has a girlfriend, as his good friend, you don't want to confuse him more and you would let him have his space. For the meantime, go out with your other friends. Don't dwell on this too much. It will only hurt you if you let it.
The best way to forget someone is to focus on other things. Make him less important. Good luck.
2007-08-18 17:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start putting some distance between you at school, whenever possible so that you are not spending as much time with this guy. Make friends with other males and get to know them better. Develop some interests and activities that will take your mind off of him and participate in activities with other people that do not involve him. Do not spend time daydreaming about him, thinking about the past or thinking about him. You will not forget him completely, but you will eventually stop thinking of him in the same way you do at this time.
2007-08-11 15:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, well it's not like he's going to be with his gf for a very long time. He could have feelings for you and you wouldn't even know. I had a crush on this guy for about 4 years and i got over him....but I don't know how . It just takes time.. and once you find someone else to have a crush on, you'll forget all about him and you'll ask yourself "what was I thinking?!"
good luck and be patient
2007-08-11 15:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tooly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forget anyone ... any more than you forget your 4th grade teacher, your first dog or the first house you lived in. You can't forget, all you can do is to move on, and they will just remain a memory, nothing more.
2007-08-11 15:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget him, but you can look 4 a replacement he's taken. It well b hard,but it can be done.( you fell this way because you care it ok, that 2 may pass.)
2007-08-11 15:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u loved somoe and u have to forget him just love anything else and put all ur love that u had to that person in another thing , like ur work, ur family , and look this life will make u forget everything and trust me there is nothng in this life deserves to make our sleves sad and mad just live ur life happy cuz we live only 1 time .
2007-08-11 15:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts more seeing him, so maybe you should keep your distance for the time being and hopefully you'll be able to find someone also. put everything (pictures, notes, songs) in a box and store it away in the back of your closet.
2007-08-11 15:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by vixen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone else to like, it'll be a lot easier hanging out around him then.
2007-08-11 15:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥MsCullen♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a boyfriend...or another friend to chat with, surely he's not the only one you can hang with in the whole school...dont wrap yourself up in him...better things to see and do!
2007-08-11 15:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by redmanlynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By stop thinking about it, and let time to take care of it.
2007-08-11 15:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋