My girlfriend and I had a bet in which the looser had to do what ever the the winner wanted. I lost the bet and what my girlfriend wants is for me wear a buttplug for 24 hours straight. I told her I did not want to do that and her response to me was ,the only way out of it is to ask the girls on this site to vote and give their response . The majority vote wins. please be kind.
2007-08-10 22:57:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I look at it this way. If you make a bet, you are giving your word on something. Now, you made the terms, and probably had some ideas for what would happen if she one the bet, am I correct? Not looking at what she has told you to do, I am looking totally at the fact that you lost, I feel that you should definitely man up, and follow in the terms of the bet, irregardless of the fact it is something you are uncomfortable doing.
Couple of things on it, not that it is something glorious to do, but if you look at it this way, it could have been much worse. It is something you can hide, and it is something you are over with in a 24 hour period of time. Not saying I agree or disagree with it, just saying it could be worse. She could have insisted you dress as a woman, or go naked or something along those lines that would be much more embarrassing, and less easy to hide.
As for the bet itself, next time, make sure you set more specific terms to the bet, such that you do not allow things that you find uncomfortable to occur.
Looking at it from her point of view, she has given you her terms. If you back out, you are going back on your word. You would have been determined that she do what you told her to do if you won. Now that the shoe is on the other foot, you are showing her that your word may not mean very much.
So, in closing, you made the bet, lost the bet, pay the price, no matter what. In the future, if you don't want to do the time, don't make the bet!
2007-08-11 12:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by sara_00_0 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you make a bet, you should always follow through with it. If they would have lost the bet, wouldn't you have wanted them to follow through with their end? Besides, leg waxing doesn't take long at all and it's really not that painful, unless you have a very low pain tolerance (now if it was a bikini wax, especially brazilian... now that would be a different story!) To say you will look "gay" is offensive, because some straight men wax their legs, as some gay men do not. Don't stereotype. It's not nice. Your legs will only stay hair-free for a maximum of two weeks, males are usually less than this because their hair grows back at a faster rate than women's hair. And are you really that insecure of your manhood, that you can't stand the thought of someone thinking your gay? Who cares what people think! If you're really that embarrassed of it, wear pants until your leg hair grows back. I say grin and bare it. Waxed or unwaxed legs doesn't show how "manly" you are. Playing fair is what makes you a real man. :D
2016-03-16 21:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy too so I don't know if my answer will count, but I would vote to give you a reprieve. I can't say I've ever tried it, so I'm only imagining what you are talking about. It sounds to me like it might not be 100% safe. However, if it turns out you can get out of this buttplug thing, I still think she gets to pick something else. Making their man do chores naked (dishes, vacuuming, dusting, scrubbing) or something seems to be a favorite of the ladies, and it usually works out in a win-win situation in the end. She sounds creative, I'm sure she can think of something else to make you pay your dues.
2007-08-11 01:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, her request is unreasonable. Who would be interested in a girl who requests her guy on a bet to wear a buttplug (whatever that is) for a complete day?
This relationship is a sham.
2007-08-18 06:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its me, I would take the gamble and take the consequences like a man and deal with it. Its your fault for taking a bet without being sure your gonna win.
2007-08-18 21:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by thadus_2pk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would let your girlfriend get away with this? In everything, there are lines that shouldn't be crossed...and obviously she is crossing it....if it really bothers you. Maybe it doesn't since you have opened this up to public votes.
Sorry...I think people are pretty foolish not to draw lines and stick to them. If she said to jump off the nearest cliff, you would do it? You see...there are lines that are not exceptable...what are yours?
2007-08-18 15:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth yes i know im not a girl but.... if you honor this imagine if you do another dare and you win pay backs a ***** hey hehehehe
2007-08-18 21:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I am sorry to say that if you don't do it it's like lieing to her to told her you would do anything she wanted if you lost now you don't want to it's not right, and do you want to piss her off?
2007-08-17 12:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by rhondam79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should try together at the same time
2007-08-18 22:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bet it bet
2007-08-12 19:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋