Ok.......we've all seen the steamy makeour session on tv/movies and it may lead to neudity but after all that what the hell do you do ? Now I'm talkin about first timers who only know about the hump and kiss (lol) and are stuck after that (sad).
Most girls feel ackward ........ this is based on my study........and aren't comfortable unless the're with a guy who has had experience, since he should have some idea of what to do.......(right?) and the fact that most men watch porn (hehe)
does anyone in here besides me not get affended if their bf watches porn ?
Now for the main question...........
How do you get an amazing sex life...........after your first time ?
And NO I'm not perverted just askin hehe
2007-08-10 22:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by % 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wait until you are old enough to understand what it is all about, and not feel that a group of strangers will give you the answer to what you need to know.
Most men don't watch porn, some do, some don't. And you don't "get" an amazing sex life - it happens because you work on it, and concentrate on each other!
2007-08-10 22:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ♥Be Happi♥ ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being virgin does not effect someones sex life because they do not have a sex life. when l was young still a virgin the only thing l knew about sex was from what l seen in movies or porn flicks. l thought l knew all l needed to know. my first time l was 22 l was ackward l didn't really like it but l thought l had to get the first one out of the way. l felt very depressed. l decided to wait til l found a real Love that would be 8 years later. but she didn't Love me maybe because of my lack of experience. l recentlly had a relationship but didn't go all the way l just don't want to go through it again. mybe l'm asexual and don't really want a sex life. perhaps if l started when l was younger and had a real relationship l might have become sexually active.
2007-08-10 23:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Learn the basics: arousment, positions, and different ways to make a woman orgasm, then build up on those basics and do new stuff with them and vary everything down to how you touch and where. All of these can be learned through either experience or sex tapes, but porn only teaches you how to arouse yourself and the basic positions. To really learn the art of sex, you watch professional sex tapes, like "Better Sex for Life." pretty much everything from the first time out, so long as you can get some experience on the way, you could be a sexpert in no time. Just a little note, learn the differences between the different types of sex.
2007-08-11 08:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I somewhat agree with iam_sohappi, although, as a man, I will say that most men do watch porn (though 90% who do will say otherwise).
I think you seem to lack worldly experience and need more time before you have sex or "an amazing sex live" as you say.
I will say this though, whatever happens after the "steamy makeout sessions" in the movies is whatever feels natural to you. If you like it and it feels good, keep going! Go for whatever makes you feel good. Otherwise I would stop and question myself.
2007-08-10 23:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Allan 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Truthfully, i have been in love and i have also been with a guy when i was not. I can tell you that being in LOVE is what makes for an amazing sex life. Its not about how you do it, its about how you feel about the person and the love you feel that makes it the best ever
2007-08-10 23:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Miranda C 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm so sorry--first of all, this kind of question comes up ALL the time from kids who are up too late...secondly, your spelling is so atrocious, it looks like there are other areas of education you should be focusing on. Sex is for adults...I know you're curious, but grow up a bit, and you'll know better than to post a question like this on a public board.
2007-08-10 22:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by hobbesjohnson 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
To answer your opening question: being a virgin means you don't have a sex life.
As to your final question: Find someone who wants to please you then tell him how. It will take some practice, but 'amazing' will become an understatement. Remember, we guys aren't psychic. Tell us how what you need and we'll provide.
2007-08-10 22:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by countrygent07 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you're a virgin you obviously don't have a sex life.
2007-08-10 23:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by snowbird 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you're a virgin...you don't have a sex life! LOL :) !
2007-08-10 22:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
practice, experimentation
2007-08-10 22:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋