a guy i dated for one and a half years said he isn't ready for a serious relationship yet because his top priority this time is his job... he said he still wants to friendly date me. should I believe him or not? thanks for the advice guys. God bless.
2007-08-10 22:15:59 · 14 answers · asked by tata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I checked the "GUY RULE BOOK", you have the right to break it off with him, that's a pretty "Lame" thing that he said to you.
2007-08-10 22:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make different priorities in their lives and for him apparently having a serious relationship isn't one of them at this time. At least he is being honest. If you like him enough to stay and just play that's fine but if you want something more serious I guess you would have to move on.
2007-08-11 05:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dean * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year and a half and does not want to get serious whatever his job, I do not think he is worth the time. Start dating other people and see if he changes his tune if he does not drop him.
2007-08-11 05:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if his not taking it serious after 1 and a half yrs i think you should just move on his waisting yr time darl he just wants to play the game i think thats why a guy works to secure his future with his women, and if his not doing it for her than maybe his just looking for other women? sorry but he should be more commited after all 1 and a half yrs together should mean something
2007-08-11 05:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just dont want a serious relationship. There is a lot involved in it.
2007-08-11 05:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if he said it like that but im going to college and there is thi girl that i really like..... but if i go out with her she would be my #1 priority she would haunt my thoughts.... so i forgot about her :(
If i was to go out with her she would come first in all my thoughts.... but at the moment i need to think about my future do what needs to be done so i can support the peeps that i love........... life is full of tricky situations
I hope u find the right path to happiness good luck
2007-08-11 05:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by enahs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea unless you don't suspect anything fishy is going on, you should believe him. There's a lot of guys that don't say anything, get married when they don't want to, and then it all goes to hell shortly after.
You should be fine. Give him some time, he'll commit. We always commit if you tell us enough. :)
2007-08-11 05:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on why can't he be serious i mean whats a job got to do with it,you know what i mean?
2007-08-11 05:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break him...you know why,,some people out there can balance their work and lovelife...and they do a great job and you said a year and a half...girl its maybe you feel something to him...
2007-08-11 05:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jiro Kawashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to believe him because he would like to provide you assured source of money for your living
2007-08-11 05:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by elghobbas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋