I like a girl and we have a laugh but it's mainly with others in a group thing. People talk about sex and she says stuff and is not embarrassed. She has asked me direct sexual questions when we are in the group. However the other day we were talking and I mentioned women having orgasms ans she went really red and said lets change the subject. I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable so we talked about other stuff. I was really surprised and it was like she' d had a personality transplant. She has mentioned sex stuff before with me and been very giggly and open but when I mentioned that she went weird. She appears to have a one track mind. Is it because she dosen't like me?
2007-08-10 21:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Rich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She only gos quiet about sex if we are alone
2007-08-10 21:45:32 · update #1
You require more time to decide she dislikes you.
2007-08-10 21:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have hit a 'sore spot` for her with the 'orgasm` remark, or maybe just triggered a bad memory.
If she talks easily about sex in a group, and it makes her uneasy when you're alone, I'd guess it's because she's attracted to you.
There's only one way to find out.
Ask her out.
The worst she can say is no.
When I was younger,
I heard no a lot,
But I got sex a lot too.
2007-08-11 05:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea on this one.
One minute she is freely discussing sexual subjects and then the next she is embarrassed by them!
My only suggestion would be to stay clear of any sexual references for a while, if SHE brings them up, keep it simple.
Sorry Rich, I cannot tell from your questions whether or not she dislikes you.
If she pulls away and no longer talks to you, then you will know for sure.
2007-08-11 04:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ursula T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a bit about body language - that will give a better idea of what shes thinking.Women can act strange like that,its just one of the mysteries of women.
2007-08-11 04:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno thats kinda weird she may be more confident in crowds or maybe shes afraid of saying sumthing stupid in front of u... u shoudl just confront her about it just go up and randomly ask if she dislikes u and if u dont get a straight up NO then she probably does dislike u... in which case im srry... well good luck ttyl if all else fails ask her out and if u get shot down then u kno for sure!
2007-08-11 04:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know,sorry!
Maybe she's just talking about sex when she is a little bit drunk,so..she's not embarassed...
If you like her,give her some time and talk about other things!
2007-08-11 05:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by **Diana** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are running into conclusions to soon, maybe you said something that is may be a personal issue for her and she couldnt talk further about it...ask her out and get to know her if you like her..
2007-08-11 04:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is
2007-08-11 05:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋